it is so annoying!! i cant ever seem to do anything right! and always make at least someone mad so that they talk crap about me!
2006-10-18 05:29:13 · 17 answers · asked by Dulceata 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Confront them.
2006-10-18 05:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean I'm a girl and I know we do this. I do it sometimes. I've gotten better about it since I left high school. I guess since I've encountered being bashed behind my back (and to my face) I've learned to keep it to myself a lot more and not judge people as much. Sometimes it slips if I'm really pissed off or if they hurt my feelings and I just need to feel better, but I usually just call people idiots. It's my nice way of saying I hate them. I think girls talk more sh*t because we're more competitive about little things. We all want to be the prettiest and we want the guys to like us and we want to be the smartest and most perfect. So if the guy we like likes another girl we get super defensive and we can't internalize as well as men can so we just say it out loud. Plus we have periods. You have no idea how weird they make us. Like I thought my best friend was mad at me because i don't even know why, but I'm PMSing so I'm assuming that's why. I don't know though. I know a lot of guys who talk sht too. I think it's just personalities.
2016-05-21 23:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry sweetie. That is this world. I hate to tell you this but friends and office politics won't ever cease fire unless you yourself try to stay out of everyone's business. There is nothing wrong with listening to others, but do not say anything back. Just be a listener. Don't even try to give advice. If you don't say anything or do anything, then nobody can say anything about you!
It's hard to talk smack about someone who has done or said nothing...
2006-10-18 05:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by Stephie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give them anything to talk about in the future....anyway...did you guys here about K? I heard that she hates her job and she doesnt like answering to a boyfriend...thats why she is single. I saw her driving last week and she was going so fast she almost hit a cop while she was going to this party...she loves to party for some reason...
2006-10-18 05:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you're paranoid or you hang out with a bunch of drama mongers who just love to live out a soap-opera. Peace
2006-10-18 05:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by rasputin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people are going to talk no matter if you did something good are bad that's just the way we are. My advice to you is to don't let it bother you. Remember they talked about Jesus and he did everything good. So just brush your shoulders off and keep doing what your doing.
2006-10-18 05:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that just means your the **** they want to shine like you but they cant so they try to talk down about u and make u feel bad if you just hold on you are going to relize that they aint nothing and you about to become really "popular"
2006-10-18 05:36:27 · answer #7 · answered by ~*~Dis Chick Iz Delicious~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DEFINATELY THINK THAT YOU NEED TO TAKE SOME TIME OUT FOR SELF ANALIZATION. SORRY TO BE SO BLUNT BUT THERE IS SOMETHING SERIOUSLY WRONG WITH THE WAY YOU APPROACH LIFE IT'S SELF IF YOU ARE CONTINUALLLY UPSETTING SOMEONE. YOU NEED TO FIND OUT WHO THE REAL YOU IS AND ONCE THAT HAPPENS IF PEOPLE STILL GET UPSET THEN YOU PROBABLY NEED TO FIND NEW COMPANY. BE YOU, BUT FIND OUT HOW TO DO IT RESPECTFULLY
2006-10-18 05:50:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming they are girls because in my experience girls are bitchy and petty about other girls. I would find new people to hang out w/ preferably boys they don't cause pettiness.
2006-10-18 05:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah like the first person sad, tell them!!
2006-10-18 05:31:14 · answer #10 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋