I talk to my boyfriend every day, and last night he said he talked to his ex for 2 hours and that doesnt bother me. what bothers me is that he seems so freakin' happy when he talks to her and he says it's b/c he is happy that they are still friends. When he talks to his guy friend that he doesnt get to talk to very much, he doesnt seem as happy. Happier than usual, but not that damn happy. Does he sound like he still wants to be with her?
2006-10-18 05:14:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like it really does bother you.
Let me tell you a story about a similar situation...
When I was 17 my boyfriend and first love broke up with me. I was devistated - mainly because he really didn't have a good reason to do so. He dumped me, and then said he wanted to "remain friends". So he would call me and we would hang out - but string me on and still want sex. It took me a while to come up with the realization that he was using me. Then he started dating a girl that was like 100 lbs heavier than me and 3 years older than him (we were the same age). He did the same thing that your boyfriend is doing now...He would call me and talk to me for hours, and bring her over to my house just to hang out. Then I realized he was trying to get me to be jealous of him for moving on...and I had no idea why. He still calls me to this day "wanting to be friends" - but I think he just wants to keep his options open in case his wife leaves him.
2006-10-18 05:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend used to talk to his ex a lot. I was ok with it at first until he start coming home late or on some days he didn't come home at all. I asked him about it and he said he was at a friends house. So i decided to start going through his emails and messages and found out that they had been seeing each other again.
2006-10-18 12:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by graphic469 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend and his ex are EX's- that means he should have no need to talk to her for 2 hours at a time.
I don't talk to ANY of my ex's, simply because I don't want to. What is there to talk about? I think you should talk to him about that, it doesn't sound right.
I respect that you don't let it bother you, but I think it's definitely something you should look into to.
2006-10-18 12:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by candy- capped 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uummmm. From the sound of it, I would think that he may still have feelings for her. I mean know one really truly gets over their ex...right???? i think that if it bothers you that much talk to him about it and see how he really feels. You may not like the outcome, but you might feel better after talking to him. Think about this....most guys have female friends that they get along with really well rather than their guy friends. She may just understand him more than anyone else. Maybe he would rather talk to her about his problems than to anyone else. Maybe there's someone else going on.....but you'll never know until to talk.
2006-10-18 12:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends why they broke up, it's hard to say if he still wants to be with her, but he may still have feelings for her, those feelings may be just caring about her or it may be more, it really depends on the nature of their realtionship, how long were they together? Did he tell her he loved her, did she say it? If they were together for a long time and they were in love, it would be hard not to be a bit insecure about that.
2006-10-18 12:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by angesky2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE but ask yourslef this is he always accusing u of chetaing or putting u on hold or caneling somthing just to hang with her? if not there just friends if so keep ur eye on her
2006-10-18 12:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,it doesnt sound like he wants to be with her,however it would seem that he still is interested,you need to tell him that he needs to spend more time with you and if he disagrees you know where his true feelings are.
2006-10-18 12:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by evilpuppetier 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO I wouldn't worry about it. He may just like the relationship he has with her now that they found mutual ground. Don't sweat it.
2006-10-18 12:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it seems that he still has feeling and like her and wants to get back with here
2006-10-18 12:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by Brittany F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is so happy that means that he still have feelings for his ex. face him and finish this matter.
2006-10-18 12:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by DARK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋