I’m a 19 yr old boy. I live a simple life. I am average in studies and not succeeded much. But I hv got good grades most of da time. From my childhood dayz I’m considered inauspicious by my frnds. Whenever I am among them I always hv to keep numb as nobody talks with me or share any fun. I almost live like a dog with them. If I try 2 say somthng nobody cares. I tried changing my company.Whether it be guyz or gals, elder people or younger people , I am a garbage for all. I really feel bored 24*7. I am very depressed these dayz. My parents don’t help me either. I feel like commiting suicide. I don’t think I am a human becoz people don’t like to mix up with me. This loneliness, depression and sense of inferiority is killing me alive. Plzz help me.
2006-10-18 05:12:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The comment that you have just made needs to be told to a doctor. Suicide is never the answer, there are people that care about you. Maybe the type of people that you're choosing aren't the right people for you, maybe they are the ones that's missing out. My little brother had the same problem about a month ago. now he is fine. Hang in there and just go see a doctor and tell him the same thing that you just told yahoo answers. hope i helped you some. take care.
2006-10-18 05:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by ljk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not the only person who has felt this way. Keep your chin up, there are those out there who would gladly accept your friendship and ideas.
Search for groups where there are people with your same interests, either online or in your local community.
Actually, I am impressed that you have not found solace in non-conformity or violence. This says alot about you. You have something to give, just nobody has discovered that yet.
Keep your chin up, my friend, maybe you are just a late bloomer where interpersonal communication is concerned. That's not a bad thing, it's just a part of the things that make you the unique individual that you are!
Hang in there, and if the going gets too rough, call a Crisis Line, there are good hearted people who would be more than happy to help you work through a bad time!
Good luck!
2006-10-18 05:19:58 · answer #2 · answered by Silly Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, realize that you are surrounded by prison walls, that your mind has gone to sleep. It does not even occur to most people to see this, so they live and die as prison inmates.
Most people end up being conformists; they adapt to prison life. A few become reformers; they fight for better living conditions in the prison, better lighting, better ventilation.
Hardly anyone becomes a rebel, a revolutionary who breaks down the prison walls. You can only be a revolutionary when you see the prison walls in the first place.
Understand the obstructions you are putting in the way of love, freedom, and happiness and they will drop. Turn on the light of awareness and the darkness will disappear. Happiness is not something you acquire; love is not something you produce; love is not something you have; love is something that has you.
No person on earth has the power to make you unhappy.
Taken from: Anthony de Mello
2006-10-18 05:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by Nuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you really do need too get rid of the friends you are hanging out with! If they were truely your friends, they would want your input on things, not act like you aren't even there. There are a lot of people that don't make friends and you may very well b one of these butall it takes is ONE good friend too show you how nice it can be.You should never even that taking your own life is the anserr too anything. That would only bring sorror too your family/ If you still have thede thought running around inside yout head, you need too seek out some help...maybe some conselling would help you a great deal, you need someone too talk things out with.
2006-10-18 05:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by Rose T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, you... hang in there, you are human and worth everything anyboby else is!!!!!! things will get better. i love that you try in school. i was not into anything but the wrong crowd. never had close friends and still do not., it is very hard to friend a REAL friend.go look in the mirror there is the best friend you can have. just go try new things and find out where you can fit in. tell your mom and dad the truth that you are very alone and need help with your time. DUDE god made people like you for laterin life when you can help others cause you will understand the pain. fight for yourself learn and grow. hang in there please. talk to a dr. and tell them how you feel. keep asking for help!!!! and do not dare give up son. i feel your pain.... thinking of you GAYLE M. IF YOU NEED HELP ASK ALL OF US.
2006-10-18 05:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by Gayle M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to get help then find out how to properly conversate with people. This is more of a state of mind and you have to tell yourself more positive things. You have to study and read upon whatever it is in life you want to improve on. After you read then seek out help from people who are good in this area. You have to keep trying and don't give up until you get what you want. You will have some good days and bad ones don't let the bad ones get the best of you, accept them for what they are and move on.
2006-10-18 05:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, i think you should seek professional help if you really feel depressed and suicidal. Second, you really need to work on your self esteem. If you feel depressed and act that way people will not want to be around you. People like to associate with other happy/fun people. Suicide is not the answer so forget about that. work on yourself and everything else will fall into place. Everybody has greatness in them.
2006-10-18 05:18:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Goodluck brother been there done that....remember...dont give a **** about anyone else...if they treat you like ****.treat them like more ****...noone is better than you...you are the most important....generate confidence...if your friends think you are weak they wont respect you...b ut if they think you are standing up for yourself..they will watch before they say or do anything bad....enjoy life....find one or two people who appreciate you....older people are wiser...19 yr olds are brats...you be a brat yourself...no one can mess with you....start thinking about who is garbage for you...you start rating people...you start treating them like dogs...you treat them like garbage....life is short and live like a king....and there are billlions of people...so dont let 1 or 2 humans come in your way...i can write a book but i hope this helps...and if you need a friend you can email me....
goodluck and enjoy life...!
2006-10-18 05:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime we all feel lonely, but we are really not, God says he will be your best friend and stick closer than a brother to you. You are somebody special and have a purpose in life ask God to guide you and lead you I pray that you will find some special friends in your life. What are your hobbies and what are your interest? Do you attend church anywhere? Maybe you could meet some new friends there. Don't commit suicide you will really be lonely and lost then. You are somebody special remember God doesn't make junk!!!!!!!!
2006-10-18 05:22:09 · answer #9 · answered by magnimpi2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are going through. Been there, still doing it but its gets better with time. You gotta look with in and do what you want. Don't have self esteem? fake that you have it, don't know what you want? act like you do. Your going to feel better. trust me, I've been in the dumps and now my life just turned around oncE I actually took the advice that I just gave you. keep using Yahoo to ask for whatever you need. As you can tell, there are many people here who will give you good answers
2006-10-18 06:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by s9j6j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋