My boyfriend watches almost every single night and it breaks my heart, what do Ido?
2006-10-18 05:07:59 · 24 answers · asked by Miss Kelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
watch with him, you might enjoy it.
2006-10-18 05:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by Shocker3:16 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump him. If you don't have children with him then dump him. Why do you stay with a man who hurts you unless you like that stuff? You are at your best in life...the thinnest, the prettyest and the sexyist...so what do you think he'll think of you then.
Porn is a way for a man to say that I'm tired of bangin the same old girl... i want to fantizize about other hotter women when I'm doing you so I can get off.
I know I'm hard on you but somebody's gonna have to rattle your cage to get you to wake up. Find a nice guy who doesn't do porn and doesn't need porn to get off.
Good luck
2006-10-18 05:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a note:
NEXT BOYFRIEND MUST NOT BE ADDICTED TO PORN
He's your boyfriend not your husband. Is he a keeper or do you toss him back? Its your call. You're single and dating. Having a boyfriend is like a test drive to marriage. Accept him for who he is and if you can't accept the porn viewer side of him send him back to the dealership and find a model that has the anti-porn feature you want.
If you try and fix him up to by anti-porn then he too has the right to make you pro-porn. Agree to disagree or move on.
2006-10-18 05:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either learn to like or accept it, or find a new boyfriend. Those are your only options; otherwise it will always cause problems for you. You're most likely NOT going to change him or make him stop liking it, so why not try to watch it and get into it with him?
I watch it with my husband and we BOTH comment on how good the women look, but he knows they're really nasty, and so do I, so what can it hurt? It actually gives me new ideas on things I can do for/with him.
2006-10-18 05:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by Jenintn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he watches it every nite..he doesnt get off on it does he? has he been watchn it since before you got together? cause if he has its an addict thing shouldnt it be? but if he is with you and started to he must have loset interest in the sex maybe? maybe he feels that he has to watch it to make HIMSELF feel better about HIMSLEF but you should ask him what is it that he lyks about porn..my man does the same,is see it on his computer a few times but i know im better than a picture on a screen so grl if its the sex maybe try to chnge it and make his mind explore and do something new..maybe surprise him with some new moves.
2006-10-18 05:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS AN ADDICTION, just like alcohol or gambling. There are tons of books and stuff out there about this and how to deal with it. Talk to him, and tell him how much it hurts you. If he doesnt care or thinks you are being silly, you need to think about moving on. You should not be with someone who isnt willing to fix themself for you. He has a problem, and its a question of whether he likes his problem more than you.
2006-10-18 05:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by EllisFan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say this, but you should probably change boyfriends. First, ask him if there is anything that is wrong with you that he needs to look at porn. If he says no, then ask why he looks there instead of at you. But be prepared to move on. Sorry, honey.
2006-10-18 05:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking him to let you pick a dirty movie and watch it with him, start you with some of the soft-core like on Cinemax late night. You might find it turns you on
2006-10-18 05:10:27 · answer #8 · answered by baby_girl_8881 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend no! I would get upset if my boyfriend had to watch porn to get turned on.
2006-10-18 05:17:25 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to him about it? you will never know till you ask him but try and satisfy him more maybe thats what he wants. Or maybe offer to make your own tape with him then he can watch that
2006-10-18 05:14:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he so does my boyfriend it bothers me because why look at some 1 elses body besides mine. why dont u mkae him feel like he only needs u and u can do better than the Video
2006-10-18 05:10:40 · answer #11 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋