I have a good paid job which I never like it, I have a husband who loves me very much, but I am not in love with him anymore, just very comfortable live with.I am really bored with my life, what am I going to do??? help!!!
2006-10-18 05:02:13 · 13 answers · asked by Tomorrowalwaysbetter! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Feelings follow actions most times. ACT as if you are so in love with your hubby that he is the only thing that matters in your life. Try it faithfully for 30 days, pleasing him, praising him, etc and see if he doesn't start doing the same to you and love comes back into your life very quickly. It's been proven to work....
2006-10-18 05:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you aren't depressed? Feelings of not caring anymore and general sluggishness can actually be signs of depression. If you think that might be the case, go and see your doctor -there is a lot they can suggest that can help.
Good Luck!
2006-10-18 12:12:10 · answer #2 · answered by ms_know_it_all 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage doesn't make you happy it makes you married. How you find happiness is up to you. Life will get boring at times. Its up to you to make yourself happy. It isn't anyone elses job. Also make sure you're not in some kind of depression.
I can tell you one thing with 100% certainty - divorve won't make you happy.
2006-10-18 12:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by mren 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only person that can change your life is you. Get up off your butt and do something about it. If you are not happy with the person you are with, why string him along? Find a job that fits you.
2006-10-18 12:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by fiestylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a friggin' clue what to tell you.
But since we are both in the Pitty Party boat we can take turns rowing?
2006-10-18 12:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by Littlebit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you need to find a hobby or two. let your husband know how u feel maybe he can cheer u up about life with him.
2006-10-18 12:07:58 · answer #6 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing you are to do is leave ur hubbie if you are not in love with him and secondly find ur self another job that you will be happy
2006-10-18 13:03:49 · answer #7 · answered by browneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, is that you?
I've been going thru the motions too. I feel so much closer to you now that I know we both don't care.
If your not my wife then ... OOPS!!!
2006-10-18 13:02:43 · answer #8 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find something you are passionate about (art, music, theatre) and let it help bring the joy back into the rest of your world.
2006-10-18 12:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by autumn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a boyfriend
2006-10-18 12:10:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋