About a month... I was getting antsy (because all other bf's had said it sooner than that) but it really felt from the heart... I hadn't wanted to say it first due to a bad previous experience so I responded to his with my own immediately and we were both very happy and we're still together (and planning a wedding) 5 years after that!
All worth the wait...
2006-10-18 05:02:29
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answered by Ivy G 2
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About a month--and he did first. It took me about 2 months as I had been hurt way too much/often by my ex to fall in love easily. But now, I am happier than I have ever been.
When he first told me, I told him I couldn't tell him right then because I had been hurt so bad for so long, but that I was falling for him fast and hard and it was scaring me. He said that was fine and he would wait, and he kept telling me he loved me anyway. I finally said it and we have been saying it to each other several times a day and now are planning our wedding (been dating for 1 year and 4 months) and we have been living together for a year as of November 1.
2006-10-18 06:18:11
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answered by honey 6
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It was about 5 months before we told each other. I said it first. I was glad it took so long though because it made it where we knew that the other one wasn't going to just blurt it out and not mean it. And now we've been together for 9.5 yrs and married almost 4.
2006-10-18 05:07:25
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answered by . 6
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is this even actual? you asked a similar question in the previous, precisely a similar oh, ok sorry, if so i could say that be conscious that adult adult males are lots extra able to 'turning off' loving emotions than lady in all probability think of, i recommend a guy can pass stone chilly on you very quickly. he could be conflicted approximately being with you considering which you're no longer muslim, to no longer be harsh, yet that could desire to be why. once you first convert its very severe and additionally you % to do each little thing actual, so if he sees acquaintances who're married and their relationship which would be extra strict consistent with hazard than yours, he could experience that he's doing something incorrect and as a result % to push you away
2016-10-19 22:45:09
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answered by mchellon 4
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A couple of days, pretty much at the same time. We say it all the time and mean it every time. It has been nearly five years since we first said it. Everyone will be different.
2006-10-18 05:04:44
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answered by Pierre D 2
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I told him first. We met on line and after 2 weeks of talking I told him first, even though I think he was scared to tell me first because he kind of pushed it out of me. Now I am living with him, planning on getting married and everything is wonderful.
2006-10-18 05:02:04
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answered by Clints_wench 4
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With in a month or two and he told me first. He still says it and we have been dating for over a year now.
2006-10-18 05:00:58
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answered by . 6
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3 weeks
2006-10-18 05:00:10
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answered by Anonymous
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He told me long before he said the words....there's no measuring stick to love...nothing to compare with or to...
Don't press the issue, when and if it's right, one of you will say the words, and mean them.
I love you...see how easy that was for me to type? (guess what, I probably don't mean it)
Good luck!
2006-10-18 05:05:07
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answered by Silly Me 3
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It was quite a while and I said it first.
I surprised myself because it just slipped out.
He still didn't say it for a while after that although I knew he loved me too. He says now he had never been in love before and it scared him.
Now we both say it all the time.
2006-10-18 05:03:53
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answered by daljack -a girl 7
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