A 15yr old likes me and I am 20. What do I do? I like him a lot and he is very mature but I just don't know because of all the laws and things. I am just unsure.
2006-10-18 04:46:44 · 18 answers · asked by Christa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's a child. Tell him to come back in three years.
2006-10-18 04:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well think about it this way: If it was your brother or your son, would you want them to date someone that much older than him if he was only 15. When people are young they still havent fully matured ( no matter how mature you think they are.) There is no way a 15 year old can be on the same mentality level as a 20 year old, theres just now way. It would be different if he was 25 and you were 30 because you both would know alot more abotu life. Your 20, you are just starting to figure out who you are...... At 15 he hasnt even come close to starting yet. Think about it.
2006-10-18 11:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by Candace T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to be 16 years of age if you're looking at a sexual relationship. Depending on the country and state you live in, it could be older, up to 17. The reality is, in two years time no one is even going to bat an eyelid because the age difference won't matter. No one worries if it's the other way around when the guy is older. My advice is to wait until he is of legal age then make a special anniversary of it - a celebration that should be special between the two of you. Don't break the law because you WILL go to jail, even if it's mutual and your first offense.
2006-10-18 11:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by Pierre D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT !!! A 15 yr old boy is to young for you. Not only is it a legal issue, it's also a moral issue. I don't care how mature he seems, the fact is he is only 15. To date him would be to steal part of his youth. He has a lot of growing to do and by dating someone who is at another level in life, he will miss a part of growing up. Don't do it !! Boys mature slower than girls anyway so there really is to much distance between you.And finally, don't ask his opinion. If he is potentially hooking up with an older woman, he will be way to excited to make a rational decision.
2006-10-18 11:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by rock d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care if he's so mature he gets social security....at 15 he's off limits.
You need to find out what's wrong with you a 20 year old woman finding a 15 year old boy interesting.
2006-10-18 11:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow I'm going through the same thing write now and i know exactly how you feel. It all happened fast and unexpectedly but now after just one month we bothed are certain its true love. What can i say just go for it. i dont know much about laws but i think if his parents are aware of it and he is mature enough to know what his getting into then. whats holding you back? you never know how it could turn out
2006-10-18 12:07:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait several years and see if you feel the same. There are billion more guys out there so I don't think it'll take you long to find another... that isn't 15.
2006-10-18 11:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by PrettyProblem 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the few women u consider being with such young guys, wish I can have the same luck, i wish i wish
2006-10-18 11:52:29 · answer #8 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go there - it's probably a crush on his part and you don't want to get in trouble legally.
2006-10-18 11:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should go for it.
If the difference wasn't that big then I guess it would be fine, but 5 years? nope...
2006-10-18 11:50:09 · answer #10 · answered by Alice_d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋