had experience swinging, are currently in the lifestyle, or have thought about doing it? Pros vs. cons etc. What are your overall thoughts on the matter?
2006-10-18 04:35:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Swinging, swapping or group sex are three practices that require maturity, patience, tolerance, a healthy self image.
One should not go into this type of conduct with the romantic notion that surrounds this taboo.
My wife and I have been practicing selective swinging for about 10 years and have thrived on the experience, knowledge, fun, excitement, and added maturity we have gained. When we embark on any type of relationship we make sure that we know the people we are going to deal with, we establish a social relationship, and lay the ground rules clearly on the table before committing to anything. We communicate any feedback immediately and air out any differences before they become issues.
When handled correctly, selective swinging can enhance not only you love life but your complete relationship. It creates tighter bonds of trust, commitment, and opens up many doors to the realm of physical Nirvana!
2006-10-18 04:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We dabble in it some.....it can be a good thing if you have a very good relationship....both are interested....you are doing it as an addition to your relationship and not an instead of......if you fit those categories, and you both agree to where the boundaries are, you never violate the boudaries it can be great...... If you dont fit all these it will be a disaster
2006-10-18 11:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thought about it alot lately. Just not very sure it's a good idea. And I am not sure the idea will be received very well.
So for right now it is just a nice fantasy. That has to be good enough.
2006-10-18 11:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by Littlebit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different strokes for different folks..
Swinging has killed many a marriage / relationship...
2006-10-18 11:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only want my man in everyway. I am not into sharing!
2006-10-18 11:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by LeeLynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never done it and never will it is disgusting...but thats just my personal opinion you are free to do as you like
2006-10-18 11:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never do it!!! I dont think that it is good on a marrage !!!!
2006-10-18 12:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by bdmrplemons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am thinking about it
2006-10-18 11:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like it, but i only take my girlfriend...never my wife.
2006-10-18 11:41:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want only my man and no one else ever !!
2006-10-18 11:47:56 · answer #10 · answered by want to know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋