2006-10-18 04:26:30 · 21 answers · asked by madan bhaiya 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
A virgin is a person who has not had sex before, simply that. You cannot tell for certain. If a woman's hymen is broken, that does NOT mean she is not a virgin. A modern girl is so active that her hymen (just a thin membrane) can easily be broken by a sports injury, a fall, or some other innocent manner. Mine was broken when I fell off a porch under construction when I was 9.
However, your wife's responses may indicate whether or not she has had sex before. If she is unduly fearful, flinches, tries to refuse you and twist away, she may have been raped in the past. If her responses are those of a much more sexually experienced woman, she may have had other sexual partners in the past.
If you want your marriage to succeed, you must trust each other and learn to grow together. Previous sexual contact and virginity are a very small part of your life together now, in the grand scheme of things. Don't blow it out of proportion.
2006-10-18 04:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by Mmerobin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she's your wife should wouldnt be virgin. Marriage is consumated by the act of sex, which breaks the hymen and takes away the womans virginity.
If you cant trust your woman to tell you the truth, or you have trust issues within yourself, you probably shouldnt be getting married.
2006-10-18 11:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is not way of finding out if ones wife is a virgin except for when u are in the process of having sexual intercourse. The only way to find out is to look your self or feel urself to see if her hymen has been broken yet
2006-10-18 11:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly Belly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her obgyn would know. Still, there's a possibility her hyman is broken, or small even if she is a virgin.
Wait a minute - if she's your wife, she shouldn't still be a virgin and if she is, you're spending too much time on the internet!
Go do your wife, for pete's sake!!!!!!
2006-10-18 11:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by NEWTOME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if her hymen is broken, that doesn't mean she is not a virgin. Hymens can be broken a number of ways, and sex isn't the only way. It can even happen just during playing as a child, and she may not even know. So don't rely on the hymen to tell you.
Trust her. She is the only one who can tell you if she is or not.
2006-10-18 11:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by Traditional Gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way to know. A lot of women break their hymen at a young age from being active (happened to me when I was about 8 and fell out of a tree onto my bike) not sex.
But really...does it matter?? If it's STDs you're worried about, it's easy to get tested. If it's religious, then you're just going to have to believe her.
2006-10-18 11:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by dr_imzadi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wife?? Well, just ask her to be truthful and even if she doesn't bleed when you have sex it doesn't mean she is not a virgin, So unless you are a gynecologist you really can't tell
2006-10-18 11:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes there is a little blood show the first time she has sex, although this is not always the case and wasn't with me so...
You just have to trust her.
2006-10-18 11:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being a "MACHO man"..
does it matter?
she married you, didn't she?
how would one know if the husband is a virgin??
just go and have a happy marriage, otherwise you will ruin your own marriage dude.
2006-10-18 11:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by green eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter? Are you? If you love your wife, then you should trust what she says.
2006-10-18 11:31:46 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋