ok my boyfriend for a year now thinks he could do whatever but let me try to do some of the things he does he'll have a fit. like one he decides to go and walk 3 girls home with my cousin and brother but the girls like them. i mean come on i'm not dumb thats setting yourself up. and then he tells me i don't want no other girl but you i love you with all my heart and i would never do anything to hurt you i promise. but let me walk a ***** home and i don;t even have to like the boy or know him i could just be walking wit my bestfriend.........wat do yall think?
2006-10-18 04:25:20 · 12 answers · asked by Mz.Tweety 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have asked my boyfriend the same question. I am going through that too. For instance, if I am on my cell phone, he asks who I am talking to. If I don't tell him, he will check my call log as soon as I am done. But if I ask him who he is talking to, he gets all defensive and tells me it's none of my business. We are asults, things should be equal. But as you get older you will learn it never is. As much as we fight for womens rights, men will always be above us (in their minds at least). Growing up my parents wouldn't let me work at a gas station, but it was ok for my younger brother, because he was a boy. Double standards will apply until the day you die. As much as I hate to say this... you have to get use to them.
2006-10-18 04:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, that guy is plain MCP [male chauvanistic pig].
He think s he is god's gift to women or something. His attitude says a lot about him, that he doesn't respect you... and any relationship cannot go anywhere if there is no mutual respect.
If he goes to the extent of telling he loves you with all his heart and stuff then he could also use his peabrain and stop treating you like a dumn broad!
2006-10-18 11:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the age old question. Men always think they can do something but will flat lose their minds if the woman does the same thing. Stick up for yourself.If ya dont like it tell him to stop it or he will have to hook up with one of those girls cuz you'll be movin on.
2006-10-18 11:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by pirategirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to loose him and grow up then later decide to have a real relationship. You both are playing mind games with each other. I know yall are young and think you know what love really is but you don't. GROW UP FIRST
2006-10-18 11:29:29 · answer #4 · answered by womanofthefire80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get in cool with those girls, set his azz up and see if he'll fall for one of them. If he does - you got your answer. Bump that don't trust that sh&*! If he getting all touchy about you and the things you do or don't do then you really have to question that - ya know. Good Luck Chica!
2006-10-18 11:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by A Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always tell my husband this, if he can do it, then I can do it. No if, ands or buts. I tell him all the time, we may be together but I still have my own life. So do what you want. And don't forget, there needs to be trust in the relationship for it to work, so you need to trust him and he needs to start trusting you.
2006-10-18 11:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by Cait 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you allow them to do it they will. Everything is a double standard when it comes to men and women.
2006-10-18 11:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it...break up...life is too short to worry about what your mate MIGHT do. No trust, wasting your time. Sorry...
2006-10-18 11:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by Silly Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yet another generalisation. You say 'men' when, in fact, you are talking about one MAN.
2006-10-18 11:29:40 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both really young and shouldn't date until you're 21+.
2006-10-18 11:27:29 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋