i couldnt sleep all nite last nite i told him i needed to see him that i wanted to tell him something i was sosososososososoos scared i didnt know what to do so finally i told him i was pregnant he was silent for about 20 minutes he didnt say a word to me i was like oooo my god its over finally he gave me this look ive never seen this look from him before omg iwas tremberling cause i didnt know what to expect then i told him i was considering abortion he immediate ly said are you crazy ? thats my baby i was in shock at that point he grabed me and started to cry he was like lets get married and have a familly he proposed on the spot ladies and gentle men thats how it happened i love you allllllllllllllllllllllllll so very much thankyou sooooooooooooooooooooooo much for all youre help .ill invite you to the wedding oky mmmmmmmmmmmmmmwah
2006-10-18 04:23:46 · 17 answers · asked by susie p 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Great, now wait for 4 hrs and choose mine as the best answer would be the best thing already. Thanks
2006-10-18 04:26:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tamika, sweetie, you need to have a sit down with yourself and think about what you are going to do. You are a mother of three soon to be four. Seriously woman I would do some more mothering and less sex. Unless you cant live without it and are addicted to it. Your boyfriend sounds like a saint. Seriously so many other men would have left you on your sorry ***. I dont know how a mother of three thinks its a good idea to have sex with someone else not their partner AND also to skip your pills. If you are fertile enough to produce twins believe me its going to happen again. THINK ABOUT YOUR CHILDRENS FUTURE ALREADY! Your momma is right to have made you promise not to have children till you had your own place. You need to start acting like an adult. Its not fair to your kids, your boyfriend, and your Momma. They dont deserve to suffer for your mistakes and bad decisions.
2016-05-21 23:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations.
Now, remember--marriage is hard work. You must treat him with respect and love. Treat him as your friend and lover, not like a child. Marriages fail because we lose focus of who we love.
Marriage young can last. You can have a good marriage and family, but as in all marriages, you have to work at it. If you are both on the same page with marriage being a partnership, a friendship, and forever, you can and will be able to withstand the storm that is most certainly going to come. I haven't known a couple yet who hasn't had to weather the storm. Be prepared. Committ to committment, and you will survive. Remember your vows--I suggest you have them written and framed so you see them everyday and remember your commitment to one another.
Marriage is beautiful, and you will enjoy it. God bless!
2006-10-18 04:36:35 · answer #3 · answered by Traditional Gal 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just dont get married because you're having a baby. make sure its the right thing to do and that you really truely love him. my step sister got pregnant and got married right before the baby was born, but then the father got really possessive and strange and the baby is now about 3 and they are going thru a really messy divorce and he's trying to make it so she cant even move out of the county, COUNTY not even COUNTRY!!! she's the one with the REALLY REALLY good job and he's lucky if he can afford a place to live. she bought the house, she bought his car, she takes care of the kid, he doesnt even take her when its his visitation time and he's now trying to make her lose her job so that she cant move. its a horrible mess.
just make sure you are doing the right thing. she was going to raise the baby herself, but he proposed and they eloped... just be careful. you need to ask him, if you werent pregnant, would he marry you.
2006-10-18 04:33:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a story about the fact that not all guys are idiots, and take responsibility for their part in creating a baby. Good luck to all three of you
2006-10-18 04:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Thats so cute. I'm so happy for you. Good luck on your wedding and on having your baby. Have a great life with your man.
2006-10-18 04:32:50 · answer #6 · answered by shorty 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Congrats!
2006-10-18 08:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Congratulations. He sounds like a good guy. Good luck with the baby.
2006-10-18 04:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by kat 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
congratulations!! im glad that everything worked out so well for you and i hope that you have an amazing family together. It was nice to read your story it made me smile to see that everything went the way it should. Good luck to you
2006-10-18 04:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by krisbohanon 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's good I'm glad everything turned out good for you Congratulations
2006-10-18 04:27:17 · answer #10 · answered by Desi & Dani's Mommy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am happy for you...You obviously found yourself a smart guy. Good luck with everything.
2006-10-18 04:32:12 · answer #11 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋