I've been dating this amazing men for over 1yr.I'm diagnosed ADHD , however we argue allot for stupid things because of me , i have many issues from my pass ( i am getting helped ) What i'm wondering is that he's very silent with me and doesn't open up easily . He told me that he was molested at 10yrs old by his neighbord , he doesn't talk to his father for financial reasons ... how can i get him to open up to me and be comfortable ? Many of our problems are due to my illness and the lack of communication between us , i just want us to be happy together....
2006-10-18 04:19:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you said your going for help right? are you in therapy, maybe he can come along with you, and you guys can go to counseling together.
2006-10-18 04:23:33 · answer #1 · answered by shorte716 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok there is issues here-being helped doesnjt mean your through the fire-your a hand full and he is too. a guy with a bad communication with dad-needs Jesus as savior-and when you blame illness you justify your actions-get your lives right while staying friends-and then see what happens-Jesus says-"I dont give the spirit of fear, but of power love and a sound mind." salvation is the Key John chapter 3 :D in his amazing grace and thanks
2006-10-18 04:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all your dating amazing MEN (meaning) of course he not going open up with you if your date more than one guy but if it was a mistake it take time he need to trust you and you should try to gain his trust opening up it not easy for some and they only open up with the one they trust the most
2006-10-18 04:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just takes more time for a man to open up than it does a woman. dont push him b/c it will cause a bunch of arguing that could be placed with smooch time. when he gets ready he'll open up. be patient
2006-10-18 04:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps it would be better to look forward than to dig through past injuries.
it's amazing how many women prefer to focus on what was wrong with previous relationships than on what's right with the current one.
then you wonder why your man loses interest.
2006-10-18 04:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u love him and u guys will get through this.
2006-10-18 04:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can
2006-10-18 04:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋