There are times that I just cannot get into sex...while there are other times I just cannot get into it. I love it, it makes me happy and it makes him happy and thats what is important. What are some ways to make us both into it enough to make it a good sex session?
2006-10-18 04:19:15 · 1 answers · asked by dancer81706 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and don't judge...I am just asking for some advice...age doesn't matter to me, I am not some 16 year old screwing around...please do not judge me and my sex life--just asking for some help!
if you want to judge just go the hell away
2006-10-18 04:39:13 · update #1
Without a lot of details provided, I'm just going to ask some questions.
Do you carry the stress of the day with you when the work/school day ends, or into the weekend when the week is over? If so, it will be hard to relax and think only of him and you while you are making love. Good sex required being naked -- emotionally and physically. You have to strip off whatever you're carrying and let your lover's company and attention be your solace and pleasure. You might try soaking in hot bath together to relax and talk before you get into it.
Even when things feel good, do you have trouble reaching orgasm? If so, google "female masturbation" and read the articles about how to masturbate. Once you know your own body and how to make yourself orgasm, you can teach your lover how to do it for you. It's fun to masturbate together and to masturbate each other. You'll learn from it.
2006-10-18 04:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋