The best route is always the honest route, but more often than not, it's never the 'easy' route. Don't cheat, but DO communicate, and if you're truly in love with this other person, and it's not a passing infatuation, you may be intrinsically polyamorous.
Unfortunately our society has this misconception that love is a limited resource; like gas or money in the bank. Think about it this way; a parent has more than one child. Does the existence of the second, third, ect child lessen their love of the first one? NO! It may lessen the time they can allocate to that particular child, but as far as love is concerned, they're all viable, precious, and sharing in a sacred bond.
Search yourself, deeply, but don't act on unsteady inclinations. Be stable and sure in what you feel before you persue something... and whatever you do, but upfront and honest about it (BEFORE taking action). Cheating isn't necessarily a physical act--it's a violation of trust and honor. Therefore, it entails different meanings for different people. Don't let everyone pidgeonhole you.
2006-10-18 04:21:37
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answered by Leena Rosen 2
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Don't be a fool! Cheating is a sign that something is wrong in the relationship. Be faithful to yourself. If your a love sick puppy...find someone who complements you-faithfully. Don't stray and stay!
2006-10-18 04:21:19
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answered by Summerbead 2
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Cheating will not make you more or less sure of the relationship you are in, it will just effectively end it. You will have proven yourself untrustworthy. Anyone who is trying to tell himself he's cheating to 'be sure' he loves the girl he's with is making excuses to have sex with someone else, and will always do so. If you're lovesick, you wouldn't be thinking about sex with other people.
Be faithful, or don't be in a committed relationship.
2006-10-18 04:21:45
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answered by wynterwood 3
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Its better to be the love sick puppy, that the cheater that she warns all her friends about. And you never get a decent date again. Not to mention the fact that if you cheated that would kill her even more that you know.
2006-10-18 04:37:22
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answered by Bloody Kisses 4
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even if u are not sure about the relationship, YOU STILL HAVE TO BE FAITHFUL TO EACH OTHER. Or better yet QUIT and then entertain new guys/girls if you really want to look for another person whom u would say "this is it". But sometimes feelings are just feelings. Even though you feel that he/she is not the one, you must test and assess what is really important.
2006-10-18 04:23:57
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answered by majormarc 1
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in all probability no longer. If I did, i'm going to easily sense rottenly accountable afterwards. to boot, cheating will by no ability be my undertaking. :] I admit that I truthfully have cheated on a attempt some cases, like 4 or three times, and that i did no longer sense sturdy. i like to undertaking myself on assessments, haha. xD and that i think of it may be somewhat greater advantageous if I failed an examination devoid of cheating, than passing it because of the fact of cheating. You get what I recommend? (:
2016-10-02 10:23:12
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answered by ? 4
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better to consider why you're not sure about the relationship, and be faithful if you're gonna stay, or make a clean break before you get with anyone else.
Cheating is pretty much always wrong.
2006-10-18 04:18:12
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answered by zmj 4
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I think you should stay faithful. You might meet a person you really like one day and you deffinately don't want a reputation of being a cheater.
2006-10-18 04:19:35
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answered by kmichelle89 2
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If you have to ask this question, this is not the relationship for you. You are already gone, so just end it and let them have a relationship with someone who cares about them.
2006-10-18 04:17:57
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answered by lynddd 2
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cheating is wrong, stay faithful.complete one relationship before starting another.
2006-10-18 04:20:02
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answered by nwnativeprincess 6
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