i think he is cheating on me wi this lass by text and e mail i need to get hold of these texts and e mails to see if its true how do i do this ? do you no i number for an investigator ? sorry bout my spelling am not very bright
2006-10-18 03:43:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just get hold of his mobile phone and call the b..ch
2006-10-18 03:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT..
I took the general advice of the answers group yesterday and went through his phone this morning then confronted him with what evidence i had... as it happens he's innocent..... Now my relationship is in tatters and well by tomorrow i wouldnt be suprised if was single...
trust him... if you think hes cheeting dont pry into his private stuff (men really hate this - as i have now found out) ask him directly and tell him why this is bothering you.. it may be nothing.... i wish i'd not posted and just kept my big fat mouth shut...
good luck
2006-10-18 11:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by Cat ( " , ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't bother hun...your only going to torture yourself more....get hold of him...look him straight in the eye and ask him...if he starts acting weird and makes a big scene then he's cheating....or you could wait till he's sleeping and have a little look through his phone but if your gut tells you that he is then your probably right....but find out first before you act...don't worry about your spelling....we all make mistakes
2006-10-18 10:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart unless you are 100% sure your guy is cheating on you make sure you have found the truth out first yes you could go through is phone wait till he asleep then go throw it ask is mates following him when hes out ,sometimes you just know cause they will be out all the time come home late or tell you they are working late and don't come home until the next day but i hope for you he hasn't cheated on you and things work out fine good luck ..................
2006-10-18 13:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by skye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go through his phone when he's not in the room..when you know he's gonna be out for more than a minute or 2...comp-ask him to use his cause you need to look something up,and yours isn't working.. have him sign in under his id if you see the email don't click on it (he'll know) look at the addy, copy it and see if it comes up in his trash or bulk.
2006-10-18 10:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by PUNKY C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i,ve been there they is a few thing u can do
1/. get hold of his Mobile when he a sleep and look through it.
2 /.get hold of his id for the com and look through that
3/.get them both 2 gether and ask them when u got them 2 gether
2006-10-18 11:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by tracyann t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is needed in every relationship so start communicating and ask him.
The second thing is trust and it don't seem like you have that so maybe you should sit back and think about why.
2006-10-18 10:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him outright. unless you could get away with being devious. get his phone and send a raunchy text to the lass sayin can't wait to see you again or summit and wait to see what you get back.
2006-10-18 10:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by SIMON T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you not get at his phone and check it out but be careful if you know his no and pin check it on site for his network gives numbers for all last callls and texts
2006-10-18 10:51:20 · answer #9 · answered by annemarie o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him flat out is he cheating. investigators are expensive. but don't go snooping in his mobile and email. if your wrong about the affair and he catches you snooping you know what could happen.
2006-10-18 10:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋