me and my bf?

Question

have been together for almost one and a half year now and now for the first time i heard the three magic words.i love you?nope...lets be friends.needless to say i started crying in almost an instant.our relationship hasnt been easy but we love each other and so i think its wrong to just give up after all this time and personaly i put too much effort in this relationship to not make it work out in the end.i knwo hes the only guy i want.i guess i just need some advice on what to do cause i aint got one clue

Answer 1

You need to ask him his reasons. Sit down and have an adult chat about it without arguing. If he really does feel this way then there isn't a lot of point trying to change his mind. As much as you may like to persuade him to stay with you, his heart wouldn't be in it if he did. You don't say how old you are. Maybe he feels like he wants to see other people? I know it hurts to hear it because I went through the same thing with my boyfriend of two years at the time. We ended up having a two week break with no communication at all and not seeing each other. After a while my boyfriend rang me one day and we got back together. That time apart with strict no talking made us appreciate each other. If he just wants to be friends after trying that, it may be better just to spend some time apart still because if you still love him but he doesn't feel the same it will be too hard on you. Good luck.

Answer 2

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't
supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute
of happiness you'll never get back

Answer 3

It takes 2 to make a relationship work and 1 to ruin it. If he doesn't want it then there is nothing you can do

Answer 4

He needs time to sort through it,, If the past year has not been easy,, it might be a good thing to move on, regardless on how you care or dont care, some people just dont mesh,

Answer 5

lord god girl you are obsessed. i was at one time too. pull my string and all i talked about was him. who was i? i didn't know because i was too worried about him him him. i got counselling. i went out with friends. i let it go. and he came back and i didn't want him. the world is full of people and places...right now someone is laughing and having the time of their life in St. Mark's Plaza in Venice....why would ya worry about someone who only wants to be friends when there is so much to see and so much to do and so many to meet...this may be the door that opens the most fabulous time of your life. good luck

Answer 6

i guess, you need to talk to him about what's goin on, or take some space to thing if he still loves U or not then, but my advice to U is... not to be very serious on him if ur not sure to him. balance ur time in love family friends school and specially to ur self!remember its not d end of world if u broke up w/him!

Answer 7

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Answer 8

You need to move on. He's told you that he doesn't see a future for you guys so find someone who is as into you as you are into him. You'll find someone. I promise!