ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half months now. he has a LOT of female friends. MAJORITY of them are his ex girlfriends and the other half are girls that are in love with him!!! Ive been threatened by so many of them. ive argued with them. hell one pissed me off so bad i went to her house. His 'friends' say all these things mean things about me to him and he still talks to them. he also brags about how all of them like or love him. i dont want him talking to any of them. they all try to get with ALL THE TIME. he doesnt say anything about it but his friends tell me whats going on if i ask. idk what do you think?? :(
2006-10-18 03:31:10 · 13 answers · asked by Twizted 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your feeling are correct,. he should let them girls do that or say that to him because one day it is going to get out of hand and he is probably going to do something with that girl
2006-10-18 03:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by Pumpkin Nickel Bread 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the loOK of it this guy seem well off with or without a lady
ok here is my solution if you mean so much to him then you will have to the hardest thing which woman know how to do well. Ignore his butt, he so much gloating over who loves, and how many friends he has put him to the test if you wanna know if he cares for you then fill your time up with going to movies alone, or spending extra time with that kinsmen you don't see that often best of relax let him chase you. Trust me on this one guys that don't get the attention they need will come back begin cause he by then won't to know what cha doing, who you with, but don't keep him on hold too long cause if he already thinks he is out of site he will then fill the need to move on to those proclaim to love him. Just don't stay in a long conversation with him on the phone i pretty sure he won't take no for an answer. Most likely if he's full of himself he will end up by his self
2006-10-18 03:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by trueexposure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to turn that situation around. We have what men want and chase after. If you find yourself on the chasing end of things that's not good. You are trying to get his attention away from other women and you get into arguments with them, no man is worth that and no self respecting woman will put up with it. Tell him how you feel and the problems you are having with this. I'm sure he wouldn't put up with you having a whole lot of male friends who want to get with you and trash talk him. Personally I think Your boyfriend is not serious about anything and is just full of himself and is ego trippin. I'd move on and find someone with less drama and more relationship minded after all it has only been two months. Get over him or at least give him enough time to get over himself.
2006-10-18 03:44:37 · answer #3 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is giving you all the reasons in the world to be jealous and so are they. Do you think maybe he is the type that likes to see a girl going crazy jealous over him? If so then this isn't that serious of a relationship to him and you are better off moving on. And just to aggravate the rest of those girls I would totally screw his brains out. Girl, put it on him so good that he wants more. So good that he is begging for more. Blow his mind and then say you know what, I don't have time for all these games you play.
2006-10-18 03:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be a little insecure. It is ok for him to have friends of the opposite sex, but if you two are together now, he should'nt spend more time with them than you and telling you how much they all love him is cruel. You've only been with him two months, I'd say cut him loose. You deserve a guy who will put you ahead of others and not put up with them threatening you and talking bad about you.
2006-10-18 03:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not say you are really jealous or controlling cause its obvious that #1- he brags about all the girls in love with him, so of course he has to know you would get a little jealous, but he continues to do it which shows that he either like when you get jealous of he just dont care about your feelings. #2- his so-called "friends" are not ok with being his friends, cause they wouldnt talk bad about you nor would they still be trying to get with him, if you ask me that shows their jealousy. It seems to me that he is guy who loves to play games with people, if your ok with that then stay but if it bothers you to the point of being jealous then i wouldnt tell him what to do but i would leave him and tell him why you are leaving him, if he really cares for you he will change if he dont, he will just call you jealous probably laugh and go about his buisness, if he does the second, you'll be better off without him.
2006-10-18 03:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by bklynmka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should not let him treat you this way. It is cool for a man to have friends that are girls but he can't allow them to disrespect you like that. If the friends don't get along with the spouse it will never work. His friends shouldn't even be talking stuff about you. Do they even know you??
2006-10-18 03:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by Christa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a short while you'd be in that list of girls and maybe be his friend too and you will act the same way they do once he gets a new girl.i know guys like yours coz i once got involved with him..he has countless female friends most of them are his ex-girls,,he just enjoy the thrill of chasing once the thrill is over he gets bored, makes you his friend(taking advange of the fact that you love him and you probably would rather have him as a friend than not have him at all) right? be smart and walk out of him,,,before he does,maybe he will come to his senses...
2006-10-18 03:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by tot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. Gurl you got a serious problem over here. Dumb him. If your guy ain't gonna stick up for you then don't watse your precious time. And you should not be affected by what his friends say, carry on with life like you just don't care, even if you do. And this guy tells his friends stuff and nothin to you? Hell, don't dumb him, throw him of a skyscraper!
2006-10-18 03:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by isabella_acerass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry but to be honest with u i do not think he has feelings for u anymore i think he likes one of his friends or jus wants to be single so hope eveything is ok good luck i wish u the best i been tho the same thing it is ruff at first but it's get easier trust me
2006-10-18 03:35:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋