okay see my friends 16th birthday is coming up and i really don't know if i should throw a party b/c on her 15th b-day two of the closest friends died on her b-day and she doesn't think it is a very good idea to have it plus one of there g/f had their baby at the same time they died so she doesn' t want to have fun while they are all sad and can't celebrate b/c of them being gone. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-18 03:30:28 · 8 answers · asked by BRAT09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Very touchy situation. I think throwing your friend a SMALL party, with just close friends might be a good thing. This might help them get there mind off of how bad there past birthday was. let them know that their friends would want to be remembered in a good light and would not want them to be depressed. Let them know that you will take care of everything and all they have to do is enjoy being around the friends that love them and care for them. hope this helps, what ever the turn out just know that your a good friend.
2006-10-18 03:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by teresa c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's getting to the age when b-day parties are somewhat lame anyways but if you want to it is a good idea. just keep her mind occupied so she doesn't have to think about what happened let her have fun so she can realize that her life is not over and she has to live it and being sad all the time is no way to live.
2006-10-18 11:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by Clark H. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way i see it, that was a dramatic thing but she should still try and have a good time becouse well think like this. would her friends want her to have fun or have a missrable time missing them? that is the advice one of my friends gave me and now i am giving it to you.
2006-10-18 10:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by vixen63_babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't throw a party the memories are still to fresh. You can be with your friend and talk to her,
2006-10-18 10:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hasnt she gonen over the lose of her friends and i think u should not do the party but go out to dinner and movie and pesents at ur house or hers give it another yr at least if she is not over it
2006-10-18 10:35:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think since all that happen u should jus give them time to get over a few things but get her something and show her u love her
2006-10-18 10:38:12 · answer #6 · answered by erika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u do not celebrate Ur birthday this year
2006-10-18 10:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
???? if some one is died thjen yes there is no way of making birthday party...!!
2006-10-18 10:39:04 · answer #8 · answered by equrab s.a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋