why is there such a big thing when a younger woman goes with another man but when it is the other way round no

Answer 1

bc it is the nature of things for men to be 5 years older than women, not the opposite. if the opposite happens the man is just looking for to woman to fill his mother and son instict...

Answer 2

My sister is 10 years older than her husband. They are very happily married for 6 years. As long as the couples are happy and accepted each other that's all matters. Love and affections comes from heart. If you can see the inner beauty Love will flow and the marriage will work out. Age doesn't come into it.

Answer 3

It's a pre-programmed instinct about procreation. Men can father children even when they're elderly.

So, older man/young woman - yes.
Young man/older woman - what's the point, if she's beyond child-bearing age?

We need to use our intellect sometimes, to get over our instincts.

Answer 4

my soon to be wife is slightly older than me, nothing drastic cough 10 years. i'm a very handsome man if i may be honest and my woman is a very attractive lady. when people see us out on the street holding hands as we walk along they don't notice the age gap. oh no! they see a very happy couple who are comfertable with each other.nowdays i think most people don't care or care to judge.

Answer 5

i was with a man 14 years older...people thought he was my dad, but it didnt bother us...i would never go with a man younger than me...i just wouldnt feel right...i would sooner go for someone about the same age as me....older men tend to get tired once they hit 50....they dont want to go anywhere or do anything (well my ex didnt)...i am not looking for another man at the mo but when the time comes, i will find someone in my own age range...take no notice to what other people think...there just jealous...who cares what they think.....tell them to ind their own business

Answer 6

its like this....