over the past year i have been dating my boyfriend, and although i he likes me as i am iv started to doubt my image. im not eating correctly and have started to throw up after iv eaten. the thought of food and gaining weight is constantly on my mind. i have in the past been treated for bulimia and anorexia and i am scared that i am slipping back into bad habits. i know what i am doing is wrong but i cant stop. i cant tell my parents because they will send me away and my boyfriend is starting to suspect that something is going on. there have been times when my boyfriend has caught me coming out of the bathroom after vomiting and i know that if he tells my parents that i will be sent to a treatment facility, he doesnt know that i had a eating disorder in the past and i am scared that if i tell him he will think i am weak. what should i do, should i tell him??
2006-10-18 03:17:15 · 10 answers · asked by maddisonavalilly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would definatly tell him. He would care if he loves you enough to get you some help. Especially your parents! They are the ones that love you more than anything in the world. They would do anything for you. Your parents, family, friends and BF/GF's should be there for you no matter what. Don't be so scared, they wont hate you they'll help you. Good luck hun!!
2006-10-18 03:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by bttf_85 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes u should. Keeping secrets will only hurt your relationship more if he finds out. You really need to get help before it gets worse.
2006-10-18 03:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by It'sMe23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Tell him and ask him nicely to not to tell anybody. It's the rite thing to do u haf to be open to ur bfs
2006-10-18 03:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by EmoLover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you need a support system and all the help you can get
2006-10-18 03:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by Mitzi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
without a doubt... tell him...tell your parents...your health is the most important thing at this moment...and if your boyfriend doesn't stick around, screw him ...he isn't worth your time anyway
2006-10-18 03:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by Derek D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents and boyfriend, and go to treatment.
2006-10-18 03:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need his support and he could be the one to pull you through this. i would also seek counseling.
2006-10-18 03:20:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray and ask God to help you hes the only one that can really help you.
2006-10-18 03:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by littleshygui 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, tell him.
2006-10-18 03:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek help now!!!!
2006-10-18 03:20:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋