Why does it seem like more white women are dating black men now?

Question

I have noticed a trend where a lot of white women are going after Black men. It seems like many of them have money too, and they take care of these men. I have noticed with my ex-husband and some of my other friends ex-husband. What is the appeal?

Answer 1

The appeal is just that...Appeal. Some folks say its because a white woman takes care of the black man. But then I'll have to say: "Do you know what this Black woman had to put up with, with this black man?" Women in most cultures are bred to raise children. Black women, we are taught the same thing too, but men are not children, and Black women, we understand we are looking for a MAN to live with, Not a child. A white woman will just put up with more crap to receive more d*ck.

As far as Black men going to white woman with money. That is true also. I live near three or four couples where the girl is white and the guy is black, and they argue constantly! They argue because: the black man won't pick his sh*t up, he constantly takes her money, and one girl even let her Black man drive her vehicle all day long while she sit in a hot house! So my thing is this: if these white chics want the di*ck, they have to put up with the consequences- holla!

Answer 2

Well, this is just a theory, but I think that it is because we are one of the first generations where it is finally not taboo, AT ALL, to date interracially. I have noticed a lot of white guys dating black girls, so its both ways. I think that black men have the attraction to white women because, well, white women are characterized as taking care of there men, which black women are not know for. The black generation now, institutes low education and broken families. I have read a couple of your questions today, and I know that this sterotype does't apply to you, but I was just trying to explain what I have noticed in the black men that I have dated. I think that it applies to all sexes and races, "The grass is always greener on the other side."

Answer 3

What is the big deal? I can't believe that people still talk about how one race is stealing all of "their" men, and that it leaves none for us. Everyone has their own taste, and it is frankly noone else's concern. You like what you like, and others might to....there is no reason to get upset about it, and complain about it. There are billions and billions of people in the world. All you have to do is pick one, not their whole race, and it isn't even about race.
p.s. I am a product of that "appeal", and from what I can see there is nothing wrong with the outcome of that mix, from what most people can see, it is a beautiful out come....and I am married to a hispanic man, and I don't ever hear white men complaining about how hispanics are taking their women, or vise versa. Same with black, and hispanic. We all just need to calm down, and stop focusing on others.

Answer 4

With younger people their is still the appeal of rebellion. There is also the great penis myth of course. Also at this point in time, because of the popularity of the hip hop culture the black world is seen as more exciting and fun. I dated black women when I was younger because it bothered rednecks and it was a counter culture thing to do. I look back on that now and think how childish I was to go out with another person for reasons other than who they were.

Answer 5

Why even ask that question? People are people. One should not catalogue their friends according to color. I'm of Irish/German ancestry and married a Boriqua. I don't look at my wife and think she's hispanic. I hope she doesn't look at me and only see a white guy. Racism is a distraction and best left to the comedians. People are people. The only reason it seems like more "white" women are dating "black" men, is because you are inherently programmed to view such things as an oddity. You need some re-wiring, some enlightening, and then we all need to focus on fixing our country, state and cities, not on who's dating whom.

Answer 6

I don't think that more white women are dating black men, I think it is that people are more willing to be open about their relationships with other races. There is still some reticule but no where near as much as there use to be. What once was not socially acceptable is becoming more and more acceptable. True love knows no boundaries, race color, creed, just don't matter when it comes to TRUE affairs of the heart.

Answer 7

I read an article and there was a poll where the black men said they will end up marrying a black woman, but for the time they will just sleep around with the white one because they are easy.

Answer 8

i know theres more women to men. so maybe its just the ratio.or its in your mind so you notice it more.personall you dont have to worry about me taking any of your men althought i have seen some really nice looking men,that make me go hmmm.it use to bother me but im finally realizing we are all muts of some sort and in decades whats white going to be. i think eventually we are all going to be one color.maybe than we can finally get over this and enjoy the world we live in on a deeper level. you have yourself a good day. dont feel bad ill give you my white man if you want lol

Answer 9

Some are in love just the same as a black girl and white boy can be.If its not love then its usually for drugs like crack ,etc.Could be any reason,but it doesnt matter its their decisions.People are more friendlier than ever these days when it comes to mixing races.

Answer 10

True love doesn't know colors or creeds. Love is somewhat an unspoken language without rules or debates. You either love someone or you don't . And just for the record, the only diversely racial couple I know right now, is a black woman and a white man, & they both have great jobs & are married and planning a family. The appeal.............love my dear.