my friend was in my class and later he changed college. now ive heard that 7 days earlier his father passed away. but one of my other friends phoned him and asked about it, then he told that please dont tell many people, its becoming difficult for him to handle the emotions when people ask.
Should i phone and ask him about how he is doing or wat?
2006-10-18 03:15:32 · 18 answers · asked by metallixan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
some people are having hard time handling /dealing with there emotions specially when people try to ask a lot what happen.just be with him or try to call him often .make him feel that you are always there for him with out saying anything about his father .he will be able to express his feelings in the future if not don't ask.make him feel that your one of his good friends.
2006-10-18 03:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by jocelyn o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look it nevier get easy when u lose someone close to u but i,ve been there i lost my dad and mum 6 week between them i hurt but all u can do is to be there for him and let him now that u there for him and he should get bk 2 college what would his dad say if he was hear.i lost my sister when i was in high school doing my exam i could had think but what made it easy for me i now she was with me and that what help me.tell him maybe his dad not hear in body but he always have him in his hart yes phone him tell him u there for him or go around and see him that would be best to see how many friend he need at a time like this
2006-10-18 12:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by tracyann t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should call him, but I don't think you should ask all the things that come to our minds when someone we know looses someone. He already say that it was becoming difficult to handle. Just a call may be enough. If he want s to talk about it, he will when he's ready.
2006-10-18 10:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is possible go and visit him times like this you need friends around you ,if he lives to far away phone him and tell him you are sorry to hear about his dad and if he wishes at any time to talk that you will be there for him and keep in contact wit him even once a week till he is ready to talk letting him know you are there is best thing you could do for him
2006-10-18 10:30:46 · answer #4 · answered by annemarie o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi >
My sympathies, and why not offer the same.
Of course 'phone up and say hi.
When my Dad passed on, all the communication was fine, and comforting to have folks call in, and have a chat.
Great stuff - do not fear of getting in touch.
Bob
2006-10-18 11:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by Bob the Boat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its only natural that he feels this way..he is still in a state of shock wondering why this is happening to him.the best thing you can do is be there for him.dont call him,go see him.maybe what he needs most of all is a good hug,a shoulder to cry on and assurance that he can still count on someone.be that friend.
2006-10-18 10:31:49 · answer #6 · answered by babykat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Annie M
Just send a bunch of flowers with a very sincere and kind card
2006-10-18 10:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by MERCAYDEES 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would send him a card through the post - inside i would write that if he ever fancied a chat to give you a call and that you were thinking of him.
2006-10-18 10:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by pinknina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont phone him send him a sympathy card and say if you need to talk you know where I am. Hes grieving it will take time.
2006-10-18 10:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by Annie M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, because in a time like this he needs his friends to be there for him as many as possible yeah he may get upset but it is better to cry then to hold this all in. trust me i lost someone that i cared about and my friends helped me threw it you should be there for them no matter what.
2006-10-18 10:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by vixen63_babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋