what can i do to pass this terrible period...i think i m still in love with my ex boy friend but we are not together anymore.i feel so lonely without him,sometimes i even cry...what can i do,how can i forget him???
2006-10-18 03:11:51 · 11 answers · asked by she... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am going through the same thing at the moment as the girl who I thought was the one for me left me and the way I am dealing with it is to think as much as it may hurt how much love and hard work you put into your relationship and then think to your self no matter who he finds they will never treat him as well as you did and then realise you didn't lose him he lost you it ma be hard but it can help mend a broken heart
2006-10-18 03:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by Dean H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I was married for seven years. I finally left my husband because I was not happy anymore. I loved him like a friend not as a wife loving her husband. During the time of separation I thought several times about getting back together with him. I had to remind myself why I left him in the first place. The emptiness hurt so bad I was willing to let myself be miserable, just to be happy? I was strong and didn't give in to temptation. I was looking for someone to fill the loneliness and no one could or they were just wrong for me. I finally stopped looking and he found me. Just out of the blue. I am happy again. Ya it takes some time but there had to be a reason you left or he left you. Take it as a life lesson and move on. Love works in mysterious ways!
2006-10-18 10:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by nightcanon.rm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is get involved in every possible POSITIVE acitivity out there! Start working out, contact some friends you may have been neglecting, spend time with your family. Positive things that pass the time and keep your mind off of him will help! Hang in there and good luck!!!
2006-10-18 10:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Cassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That completely sucks. It will take you about 2 years to get over this. In the meantime, take a class or 2, fill your time with other things that give your life meaning.
2006-10-18 10:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like the Break Up movie. Just move on. You'll find someone else. Dont cry over it.
2006-10-18 10:14:43 · answer #5 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try to answer more questions about love problems in here... and you will found out that your not alone in this world whos having the same problem..... and others have much heavier heart problem than yours....and by reading others opinions...there's an eye and mind opener that will make you easily forget him... try to be busy... have fun..
2006-10-18 10:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by ely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either get back together or if that is not an option then just move on, you have friends and family, no guy is irreplaceable
2006-10-18 10:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by Mitzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go shopping, hang out with friends, and try to move on. You will continue to think about him, if you don't try and focus on something else.
2006-10-18 10:14:09 · answer #8 · answered by NIKKI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for every month you have been together, sulk for those few days. then no more crying! you can only fall in love again when you really let go of him
2006-10-18 10:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by hollywoodhills 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something for yourself! Do everything for yourself! Go out with your friends. Start networking. Find someone new...who deserves you!
2006-10-18 10:23:09 · answer #10 · answered by Summerbead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋