I was out at a club with my friends last night for ladies night. My ex from a couple relationships ago walked in with a girl who is NOT his current girlfriend. One my friends works with his current gf, so she knows he's not broken up. I know he saw us but he didn't acknowledge us. At one point, he started grinding on the dance floor with this new girl. I had a couple drinks in me & I thought it would be funny if I took his picture with my camera phone. So, now I have these pictures of him grinding with this girl. Should I send them to his current gf? He cheated on me years ago and it was going on for a while. I would have appreciated it if someone would have let me know he was cheating. If I send the pics anonymously, he's going to put two & two together and know who sent them. My friend who's her coworker does not want to get involved. Since he saw us, he may be planning for me to do something & already have a cover up. What should I do?
2006-10-18 03:07:42 · 13 answers · asked by ☆skyblue 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
For me, the important part of what you wrote is that you would have wanted someone to tell you he was cheating. In other words, you would be emailing the pictures to try to help a person who is being taken advantage of by the guy. Because your motive is good, not revenge, I think you should do it.
2006-10-18 03:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let sleeping dogs lay. Soon enough his current girlfriend will find out he is attempting to be a player and give him the travel card. Why put yourself in the way by getting involved as it may be looked at as you getting some type of revenge or wanting him back yourself. Just be grateful that he is no longer in your life and making a fool of you as he is his new girlfriend.
2006-10-18 03:14:01 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge is nevera good deal. it causes mess. it may make you feel good for a second, and then will for sure make you feel nasty for months or even years.
also, if it's an ex bf, what do you care? actually you shouldn't care at all. if you still do care, enough to want to hurt him, it means you haven't moved on, which is not good. because as long as you have not moved on, you cannot either have a new relationship, or at least have a successful new relationship.
so rather than corner yourself back into that old story, and potentially hurting other people, and potentially hurting yourself if and when these people (such as this girl) seek revenge, my advice is to delete these photos, and move on.
maybe it's not easy, but please do it
2006-10-18 03:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by AntoineBachmann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) What a freak ! 2) ...its easy as ABC to block his number ... 3) Obviously he misses youu .. 4) he can feel like he can talk to you about cheating on his girlfriend because you dont have a personal relationship with her and he doesnt think she will find out .. or hes making it all up in the attemp to get you jelouse
2016-03-28 14:27:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a childish game but he is the player!! the girlfriend may not know what the real man is like. he may have put up a frount and she has no clue. i would say to try to talk to her about it with out the picts and than if she does not believ you than go for them. warn her but try not to use the picts unless last resort!!
2006-10-18 03:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by Jenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you have a picture, that would be pretty damn hard to cover up. I'd send them, but not anonomously. Tell her what's going on, and if she ignores your proof, let her go. She'll figure it out on her own!
2006-10-18 03:17:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of me wants to say what I know everyone is going to say and that is... no, let him make his mistakes. You have already moved on etc. Then again, I say do it! Show her! Someone should stop him! jerk
2006-10-18 03:14:41 · answer #7 · answered by jesse'sluckymommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me like you just want to get back at him. you aren't doing it for her you are doing it for you. deep down you don't care about this other girl or whether she gets hurt
2006-10-18 03:15:47 · answer #8 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him the pictures and plainly ask him "what's up?"
2006-10-18 03:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah be the bigger person..thats childish...sounds like something a person in high school would do..let it go
2006-10-18 03:12:29 · answer #10 · answered by nickdavis31021 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋