2006-10-18 02:53:53 · 20 answers · asked by TRACER 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
if an argument seems to be getting out of hand weather your right or wrong walk over to a corner and just stear into the wall half way through a sentience
this confusers the other party and normally you stop yelling and start talking
the best thing is to say your sorry even if you are right
being right or wrong is not as important as being together how ever the relationship or friendship
if space it what you both need
talk and make sure that you both get the point
set a time in a few hours days weeks where you to can see each other
if it dose not work then maybe you should rethink your friendship or relationship with the other person
2006-10-18 03:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by Zara3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Arguing takes two, so fess up to your part of the disagreement and apologize. You might want to find more constructive ways to argue. When things get really heated make a deal that one will go for a short walk so you can cool down. Refrain from words like "you" and "you always" Instead use "I" ie:
"I feel really bad when you forget to call me" sounds much nicer than "you never call me when you say you will", "I feel lonely when you watch so much TV and spend so little time with me" instead of "all you do is watch that TV you lazy bum"
Never go to bed angry, apologize as soon as you can and when it is genuine. The longer you take to apologize the harder it will be.
I think when things are resolved a big hug and an I love you are appropriate.
peace
2006-10-18 10:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by easinclair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well make up sex of course. After that 30 seconds of fun I suggest going and doing something that you both enjoy doing. A movie, shopping..something to help heal the bond betweeen the two people.
2006-10-18 10:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find comedy always helps. No, wait, chocolate, followed by comedy, followed by something like, a voucher that says free massage for the next week, and then make up sex. Followed by more chocolate, or even the use of chocolate and comedy during the make up sex.
2006-10-18 10:10:16 · answer #4 · answered by Orditz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say you sorry to start off. Or say nothing and smile and hug the other person. A light kiss on the face then a nice hug.
2006-10-18 09:57:20 · answer #5 · answered by ced56 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quietly sit next to ur partner, then hold her hands and look at her eyes, then smile at her looking so intimate then tell her ur very sorry for what uv said and done that makes her feel upset.
wait, for her answer while still holding her hands, then when finally she responded to u, embrace her then kiss her then tell her that ur really sorry and her forgiveness really matters to u...
after that, tell her that no matter what ur talking about, ul try ur best to talk nicely and tactfully to her... that will make both of u a better person.
2006-10-18 10:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by kazzi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a picnic in the middle of the living room and save room for dessert if ya know what I mean. hehehe
2006-10-18 10:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by Blue Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hug is the best! No words just understanding! Builds that bond. SEX works for a while but its not as powerful.
2006-10-18 11:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Snuggling is the best! Personally, if someone pets my head and plays with my hair... I'll forget anything!
2006-10-18 12:16:47 · answer #9 · answered by Love_cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex! Really that is the only reason to argue to begin with.
2006-10-18 09:58:33 · answer #10 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋