I met this guy at a conference. He said things like 'i really connected with you' etc etc. He was kind of cool. We started talking and all. And suddenly he is not picking my calls or calling anymore. He works in the same organisation so i can see him online. Its not like he has disappeared. After some calls and messages, he once picked my call and said 'sorry, its my mistake, i am so busy etc etc'. I dont believe any of it and know that i should move on. But i CANT. I call him back atleast once in 10 days and a no reply breaks my heart. Makes me think what foolish thing did i do, and all. How can i get him out of my head.
2006-10-18 02:39:41 · 6 answers · asked by vittrash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't force it.
He might think you are being a stalker and very clingy person if you keep doing the things you do.
If he really sees you as a friend, he will still keep in touch with you no matter what and naturally if you two are compatible you will get together more often when the opportunity arises. However if you two are not that into each other, even if you try to create opportunities to get together you two won't be having a good time or anything.
So just move on and find more friends.
Don't forget your old friends.
2006-10-18 02:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by lkraie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. The sensible answer is forget hime but we all know that it isn't that easy. It sounds like you have become too preoccupied with thinking about him. For you his words meant a lot, for him they probably meant something at the time but he probably says it to loads of girls. Some guys are very good at giving an impression that they really mean what they are saying but they are just going with the moment. You are obsessing and that usually means one thing- Low self esteem. If you felt good about yourself you would probably think sod him, but you keep clinging on. You need to work on your self esteem.
2006-10-18 09:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by Muffin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What will it take for you to get the message, as he has done every thing he can to tell you he is not interested, now you need to look at you obsession with this man, you do not really know but will not give up on
2006-10-18 10:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say it, but he isn't interested. He just isn't man enough to tell you so. Take a few days to kick yourself for being foolish if you need to, then let it go and move on. He's not worth your time or effort.
2006-10-18 09:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was trying to tell you what you wanted to hear to get some sweet lovin' at the conference. I would forget about him if you can, don't waste your time.
2006-10-18 09:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is no longer interested
2006-10-18 09:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by ntu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋