I was having a conversation with my husband about a radio show that was discussing adultery. He started to talk about how sex was overrated and the majority of married men would have sex with other women if it was acceptable. Men & women are different. Men can have sex with other women without becoming emotionally attached, unlike women. Men having sex with other women doesn't mean they don't love their wives. Are there any other men out there that feel this way?
2006-10-18 02:18:56 · 15 answers · asked by BB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont have a wife , but if and when i have one it would be one whom i loved and respected and cared a lot for, who was damn beautiful as well. Having said that that wouldnt stop me from appreciating and thinking and wishing I could sleep with another hot chick, however I will not cheat 4 my wife.I think ur husband is man enough to say the truth honestly, and I'm sure thats the case with all men. Its good as far as he doesnt cheat, any other answer is a lie, i can tell u that. One more thing if Iwere born in a society in which sex with other than ur spouse is acceptable I well might have done that.
2006-10-18 02:29:01 · answer #1 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a black male, but I'm a black female so I'll weigh in anyways. I have nothing against interracial dating, but like someone said above, the black guy is ALWAYS dating a white woman. And if a black woman is the main character of a show and god forbid she's educated and successful, she's always bitchy. Black woman can never win! On the other hand we need more black couples on TV to show that not all black couples are dysfunctional (single parent situation) like some people seem to believe... My parents are both black and have been married for over 20 years. Maybe then we can stop these stereotypes early on.
2016-03-28 14:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes men are wired differently it goes back to the preserving the race by impregnating as many women to spread the seed for a healthy offspring. Its not as a emotional bond to feel protected and being provided for as women see the relationship that is why women tend to feel the strong need to nest.
2006-10-18 04:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a strictly sexual sense I would agree with him, men are just wired that way and sex doesnt have to be emotional. But when you find the ONE...there is nothing like the sex between the two of you and nothing else can compare.
2006-10-18 02:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. i could have sex with a woman and not get emotionally attached. Men are wired differently than women
2006-10-18 02:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by Jim G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that although there is always the exception to the rule you're husband is pretty much on the mark on this one.
Hey...even Jimmy Carter said he lusted in his heart sometimes for other women. Its human nature. Good looks....whether real or enhanced by the consumption of alcohol, is always a high point in sexual stimulation.
2006-10-18 02:26:01 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that sex is way, way over rated! Yes, men can have sex and think nothing of it, it's just something to do that feels good is all!
I also feel strongly that when your with some one, you don't mess with any one else! I am a firm believer in monogamy!
2006-10-18 02:24:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be the case with some men I guess. But don't you think that if a man really loved his wife he wouldn't sleep with other women?
2006-10-18 02:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by His Dudeness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are married, discussing having sex with other women is out. If you can't be faithful get out the marriage...
2006-10-18 02:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men tend to not be emotional people for sure. That i agree with, however, if a man truely loves his wife, then why does he need to go outside of that relationship? It shouldn't even be a thought to pursue.
2006-10-18 02:46:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋