What next if you come home and find your wife/girlfriend patronising a vibrator u never knew existed?

Question

Women take it easier when they find their man masturbating, but are men able to take it in this same strenght?

Answer 1

Nothing. Congratulations to her. She's not cheating on you. I say great.

Answer 2

Whats wrong in mastrubation. Easing out the tension is one of the best remedy in the world and one should not get worried / stunned / dismay / angry when you see somebody like your wife mastrubating using a vibrator or any other device. As long as she is sincere with you and not cheating you by sleeping with somebody else I think you should not have any worry. One more thing just because she is using a vibrator it does not mean that she is unsatisfied with your performance it only states that she enjoys more in her fantasies just like men do. Take it easy and do not give much thought about it , this is very common in life.

Answer 3

Of course a vibarator or masturbating is a hell a lot better than cheating with a real person... sometimes we are not in the move of making someone else feel good sometimes we are just looking for somekind of physical relief so we can take a nap or relax and chill... have nothing to do with men pride sometimes we just like to enjoy a good orgasm by our selves. no big deal.

Answer 4

I would think "jackpot"! I once came home from work, and found the wife watching porn and using her vibrator in the bedroom. I thought I had died and gone to heaven!

If she's getting into it with her toy, that means she's rearin' to go. You can either watch and pleasure yourself simultaneously, offer to help, or offer to occupy her mouth with your c.o.c.k. Or, if she's really kinky, as my wife is, try to get both it and you in her at once. Either both front door, or if she's into it, you go back door while it stays in the front. This really works well if shes on all fours, and your doing all this from behind. You will feel the vibration and it'll get you goin too!

Answer 5

I'd have no problem with it, in fact I would tell her to carry on so I could watch. I may get a few pointers out of it so I'd know where to hit on the right spots.
It could be worse, my friend went home early and found his wife in bed with a woman, that hurt him more than if it had been a man.

Answer 6

I would be over the moon. It would be great. I would enjoy helping, watching or just leaving her to it. I think women hide their masturbation too much and should be as open as men about it.

Answer 7

Join in!

She probably was too embarrassed to broach the subject of bringing in toys to the relationship. It can really spice up a relationship and give you courage to try new things!

Have fun with it and don't get too upset!

Answer 8

I think its natural for a woman to use a vibrator, if my boyfriend walked in and saw me playing he would sit and watch for a while then he would join me. Be adventurous.

Answer 9

it's natural...she must just like to play on her own sometimes...there's nothing wrong with that...it's just like you said about a man masturbating, well it's the same for a woman...we should all have a little toy stashed away just for safe keeping

Answer 10

Well their is no harm in it as its better her using a vibrator then another man in the bed.and look at it this way what we can't do the vibrator does.and batterers last longer then we do?

Answer 11

Take it off her and use it on her ... maybe she can take it and your appendage at the same time in different orifices!

Remember it exists next time you're alone and use it on yourself in the hope that she'll come home and catch you too!