can you see the reason behind a person who laughs after being cheated?

Question

while answering people who are asking about what had happened?

would you think that person is just cheerful, unaffected, or just trying to get over it?

would you feel sorry for that person, or would you feel happy that he/she can handle the situation well?

have you encountered people like that?

Answer 1

the person is trying to hide their inner hurt... in the beginning it was OK to talk about being hurt but after a while the person becomes depressed, they not knowingly laugh their way through things especially around people, because that laugh gives them a quick happy boost although they know it is false as when they are alone they feel low. . you should respect them and not ask to many questions like are you OK? and do not say i think your going insane? be normal as you would and try n cheer them up by doing things you know they like but do not make it look like that is what your doing.... Oh and be there because after this stage they will have a big brake down and they will need you there......

i hope it works out xx

Answer 2

Yes...laughter is a self-defence mechanism that most humans use to hide their true feelings. That is the same reason, some people laugh where they are scared. Sometimes, people laugh after being cheated because they feel stupid.

I would feeling that the person is trying to hide his / her embarrassment. Therefore, I would let the incident 'go' without further enquires. However, if the situation is of a 'grave' nature, then I would show my concern and counsel the person.

I normal situation I would pity the person, unless it is retribution.

Cheers..

Answer 3

Every person deals with a situation differently, Some laugh, some cry, some get upset and some get violent. This could be how that person deals with stessful situations.

Answer 4

It might be a way to cope with it, but I think that's great. I mean, one could say if the person's hurt he/she should show it it's easier to go through it that way, but I'm a big fan of people who can laugh at anything in life, even painful moments.

Answer 5

I do laugh if somebody manages to fleece me.

And I even have to admit to a grudging admiration for them for doing it; I'm not easy to fleece.

But that is really only because I know they will pay, and pay dearly for it when I get round to balancing the books.

Because I never sit back and let a thing like that slide.

Answer 6

Yea I have had dat terrible expirience it's really sad ain't it. Well I feel sad at 1st den I feel mad & angry den I just am very hurt emotionally but we have 2 get on wit life God gave us people we need relationship 2 be people but den again we gotta choose da right 1. u might think dat Mr.Right is gonna come but dis is realliti & dat's why we ladies gotta be careful.GoodLuck and don't waste u're time byfeelin' 4 him.

Answer 7

yeah i would feel a little sympathy for them, cause they are probably just trying to cover up the fact that they're hurting cause they don't want others to think they're upset by someone who did such a terrible thing to them. It's just human nature though...if my boyfriend cheated on me, it would really hurt me and i'm the type to show my emotions so i would probably cry all over everyone..lol

Answer 8

I would feel bad for the person, b/c they have just had their trust and heart broken. I would have to say they are trying to get over it. If anything I would try to consult them and have them tell me whats on their mind, which in term would make them feel better

Answer 9

yes, not all that cry are happy...sometimes too much frustration makes you laugh hard or cry hard........this is a normal reaction coz you can't believe it happens to you!!!

Answer 10

i would love to be that easy going! Cudos to that person!