2006-10-18 01:16:05 · 14 answers · asked by zeta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dont want that painful pleasure.please advise as i heard that doin from behind will lead to many problems such as frequent urination or burning in sensitive area.
2006-10-18 01:21:25 · update #1
If your boyfriend can't respect the answer "no" then I would get a new boyfriend.
2006-10-18 01:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by Susanne T 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are 3 options to consider......"Am I scared about trying it because I've heard it's painful, but deep down inside I'm a bit curious"? Or...."I'm really not interested in the least bit about this type of sexual relation, and there's no way I'm going to do it.......And....."Am I going to lose my boyfriend because I'm just not interested in having Anal sex"? If the first option is more or less what you're feeling, then I think you sould have a well-structured conversation with your boyfriend so that you're both on the same page, and you can both understand what and how it will happen.....and make certain he's well informed on the techniques involved to make it as enjoyable as possible, Now, If the latter 2 options are more along the lines of what you're thinking, then you do should consider re-evaluating your relationship, his priorities and his preferences. Because if having Anal Sex is something he really needs in his sexual relationship, and you're not going to meet that need......eventually you will both be very unsatisfied, and he will venture to find it somewhere else. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not telling you to go for it with him out of fear of losing him.....nothing could be further from the truth. What I am trying to say is be true to yourself, and for you to make the decision taking your own feelings, and needs into consideration......not just his feelings.
Best of Luck!
2006-10-18 08:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by Ralph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It Depends On How You Feel About This And How Your Body Feels.
2006-10-18 08:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by Kawame R 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If u dont want to, dont, dont let him push you,say no, explain why and if he continues, well he doesnt love and respect you or your feelings,p.s a guy will be as sweet as the smell of rose to try and pursuade you, and very very forcing,and make it seem like its not bad, show him whata woman is all about.stop having regular sex and that should teach him a lesson,after all is he gay??tell him to try men!
2006-10-18 08:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by elenaki_5 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am concerned about your phrase "more painful." So are you saying that sex is always painful for you? It should not be painful, it should be pleasurable. If you regularly experience pain during sex, you should talk to your OB/GYN.
2006-10-18 08:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it is your first time doing it through the back door.... ask him to go really slowly and do it gently as the tissues of anal are more prone to tearing and injuries.
therefore always use a condom if the both of you aren't tested for STD. tearing of the skin makes disease easier to spread.
to make things more comfortable, use lubricant and apply alot of it so that things go smoothy
have a safe and enjoyable trip! ;)
2006-10-18 08:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by Spidergurl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hun those are not the only side effects, u may also become loose down there and therefore not be able to hold some staff back for long JUST TAKE A MINUTE N IMAGINE HOW THAT WOULD BE
2006-10-18 08:24:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes it is painful, Unless you go to a xxx shop and get some jell,, But if you have never done it, why do it now? For give me for asking.
2006-10-18 08:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Most women love it from behind... note, not anally, just from behind.
2006-10-18 08:18:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never do that. As that is 100 percent un natural. And thing against nature lead to full destruction.
2006-10-18 08:19:55 · answer #10 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋