My boyfriend cheated on me a couple of months ago, the girl in question was a collegue of his, it was going on for about 8 weeks. He has recently changed jobs which is in a different town to his old one, so i was happy thinking that he wouldn't see her anymore. Everything i think is ok now, but i need to know if he still sees her. I know he still has her phone number in his phone because i deleted it when i found out and the same number has appeared again under a blokes name !!! I know i am being studip and the worse thaing is that when i confronted him about the number he went mad as if i had done something wrong. To be honest he doesn't seem sorry about what he did, but he did choose me.. What does this meam ????
2006-10-18 01:14:53 · 19 answers · asked by sta83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
girl being with this man is messing you up...the moment you found out he cheated you should have left.. is your self esteam so low and do you think so low of youself to thinnk he must love you because he choose you? for the love of god he dosent love you? your just comforting to walk all over.. shoot i'd do it to...you sit around and take everything cause you think nothing of yourself. you have to go your gonna kill yourself wondering if he still cheating its not gonna go away those times your wondering and going through his wallet and phone your wasting so much time and killing your soul your gonna make yourself literly nuts... and you answer is yes he still cheats what are you gonna do about it NOTHING! why 'cause you love him... let me tell you when you grow up love is not enough....your killing you get yourself back!!! before its to late.
2006-10-18 01:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you did say she was a colleague of his. Could it be possible he still has to maintain a working/professional relationship with this person? Despite how you may feel, he may still have some reason he must keep that number, so asking him why the number is on his phone may be the best course of action for you.
It sounds to me like you have a definate trust issue here. Unfortunately I find trust issues are only resolved in one of two ways: either you work through it to rebuild your trust in each other, or there is the much more traveled road of giving up and moving on.
2006-10-18 08:20:30 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pardon me did you just say you deleted a phone number out of His phone, he isnt married so what he does is his business. you are just a girlfriend...what gives you the right to get into his phone, he changed jobs and did his part to make you feel better.when it gets right down to it as long as he isnt married he has the right to have 20 girls phone #'s Why do people assume they own someone that they are just dating...this is a real problem, you need to move on and find someone that wants to marry you.
2006-10-18 08:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have done wrong about the number. His phone is his private thing and you don't have Right to touch it if he dint' allows at least don't tell him that you have done it. Ask your self what is the reason why you are his choice? Maby the reason is some moral obligation not love, He is cheating you and he is not going to stop. Kick his as if he loves you he will bag you if he don't you don't need hem.
2006-10-18 08:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry sweety,Your not gona like my anwser,but Once a cheater always a cheater,i learned that the hard way!You need to move on and find a man that will love only you!I,m sorry!Hollywood
2006-10-18 08:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by hollywood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have to ask this question, you may already know the answer. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Move On! And what STD are you going to end up with?
O'hock
2006-10-18 08:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by orcahock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is still cheating. He's not a very good cover up. The same number just a different name? That's bs.
Move on hunny. He's not worth it.
2006-10-18 08:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that he is a cheating son of a bi*ch! and that he has no remorse and obviosly think u r just another piece of *** that he can call "love", i think he is still cheating, i mean c'mon changing the name to a blokes? that's lame, he probably picked u because he likes his toast buttered on both sides way to much!
sorry honey, but thats men 4 ya!
good luck
2006-10-18 08:19:30 · answer #8 · answered by livinia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you will be able to know if he is cheating on you or not! Spending an excessive amount of time on work or a business trip.. etc. I had the same thing happen to me!
2006-10-18 08:17:45 · answer #9 · answered by Heather B. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He Was Probably Trying To Make You Jealous
2006-10-18 08:19:13 · answer #10 · answered by Kawame R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋