are you passive or aggressive?

Question

i am mostly passive.
i have been known to make a few holligans walk the plank, but i am pretty calm about that....so even in aggressiveness i am mellow.

so, tell me, are you passive or agressive & how so?

Answer 1

Pretty passive …most things don’t bother me…much!!!

Answer 2

I guess the most honest answer is that I have my moments in both areas, but I lean more towards aggressive. I am not hesitant about going after what I really want and I don't wait to follow someone else's lead. I am outspoken and direct and I typically don't care who likes what I have to say, especially when I am asked or I have something to say. I don't need to yell or resort to fisticuffs, but I'm passive where I think it's called for and aggressive the rest of the time.

Answer 3

Aggressive.

I just move through life aggressively. Where other people stand down, I stand my ground. Where other people defer in preference to getting caught up in confrontation I'll opt for confrontation without a moment of hesitation. Where some people say nothing even if they'd like to, I'll say my piece and be damned.

The only time I'm passive is if somebody says something I agree with, and I think they're right, and there is no need to throw a wobbler. And if what I find disagreeable is just too petty to get angst about. And if I think they're wrong but their error is of no real consequence to me.

If fellas piss me off and I'm close to them I won't argue, I'll kick off with them on the spot and make it violently physical.

I'd never harm a woman that way, but I have been known to go out of my way to locate and identify the husband/partner of a woman who pisses me off enough and kick the crap out of them, even though they didn't have the foggiest idea why. Then tell them to keep their bitches on a lead in future.

Men get pretty ratty if they cop a beating for what their other halves have been up to.

I have found that nobody is beyond a truly determined reach in this life. And there are a vast number of ways to skin a proverbial cat.

So just plain aggressive, I suppose. Though there are, of course, plenty of other names for what I can be at times :oP

Answer 4

Dragon tries to be passive, but sometimes when she gets home she has to have tantrums for awhile to keep up the passiveness.

Answer 5

both. In general I'm passive. But in love and sex, I'm aggressive.

Answer 6

I am assertive. This means I state my case and stand my ground, not taking any nonsense from anyone, but open to thought out arguments for adjustments to my stance. I will then run you through or throw you overboard.

Answer 7

aggressive im a take charge kind of person i think i am ocd everything must be perfect my home my self my kids myhusband well im still working on that but everything i do i must dominate.sometimes its not a good thing.

Answer 8

Agressive. I am very outspoken and want things done correctly and NOW. I hate to be kept waiting. lol

Answer 9

I am passive-aggressive

Answer 10

I'm the most aggressive person I know. EVERYTHING annoys me. Absolutely everything. I'm angry ALL the time. It's great fun.