i'm preparing for JEE-08. pls.suggest ways to avoid masturbation as it's inhibiting my studies.plz.help

Question

i'm not able to concentrate on my studies due to this. i can't resist myself and i am in bad need of help. i'm otherwise a bright student and this is badly damaging my character

Answer 1

I could not understand you problem at first but when I read your question through it was revealed in the last three wordd'damaging your character'. Now pray tell me how come it would damage your character.You must be doing it when noboody is looking on and even supposing somebody did find out and even if he talks about it to somebody and the matter gets round even then I don't understand how it will damage your character unless you are under the influence of the old, exploded myths about masturbation. When I was you age the treatises onthis subject declared that even if you masturbate one time you would be impotent. Mind you not by any doctor but by a yogi.I occasionally used to masturbate and was rather taken aback but I did some reading on the subject and was reassured. In fact instead of going in for sex at this tender age it is better to masturbate lest you fall a victim to some infection. However, sex is preferable to masturbation as the latter is likely to lead to excess as only you are involved in it. For sex it takes two and thee is automatically some check on repetition. But you can control yourself. The loss of one drop of semen does not presage death as they used to say formerly but a frequent loss may lead to fatigue, loss of concentration which may adversely your studies. So the only thing to be guarded against is keep it within bounds. I cannot lay down a time schedule because you have got the watch.Do not repeat it frequently. In any case my experience had been that repetition progressively diminished the enjoyment.That's all. Follow this and sometime later you would be laughing at yorself for all these thoughts.