2006-10-17 23:05:09 · 12 answers · asked by jean t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have been married and divorced three times. I have finally figured out the problem though, I have not married for the right reason. When I marry the next time it will be for love, trust, faith, and loyalty. Not because I feel like I have to, but because I want to.
2006-10-17 23:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by greenmountains84 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Twice
#1. We were young and it didnt work out.
#2. Married 13 years we lackked good communication and she cheated now we are divorcing. Did have 3 wonderful children from this marriage and we are cordial to each other so there are some highlights.
2006-10-18 07:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married three times.
Hubby #1 we were very young and he was a drug abuser and physical abused me, have two wonderful children so I don't regret my marriage and there was nothing I could do to save it as he was in another world all his own.
Hubby #2, he was very abusive to me and my children and no i do not feel bad that it did not work.
Hubby #3, third time is a charm having some bumps but it is a terrific ride, finally feel like I met my soul mate. And he is very good to my children
2006-10-18 06:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by kelsey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have also been married 3 times. hubby #1. marine corp and beat me constantly. Still have nightmares from him . Hubby#2 he was killed in an automobile accident but he was a drug abuser . Hubby #3 Great guy we have been married for 4 yrs now and going strong . We have bumps and bruises along the way but we are good with each other and seems like to me the 3rd time is a charm. Still have nightmares but hubby knows what I went through and he is okay with it. I love my life now.
2006-10-18 07:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me sorry. Married my first boyfriend. Been together for 13 1/2 years and married for 9 1/2. Boring.........
2006-10-18 08:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by Mummabear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 1971-1981 This was a marriage at 18 to leave home and get away from an abusive father---walked from the frying pan to a hot skillet---10 more long years of physical and emotional abuse.
#2 1983-1992 You would think I would've learned the 1x around...same thing except emotional and verbal abuse with constant threats he was going to kill me.... (he was former 82nd airborne----viet vet)
#3 1993-1993 6 wks hillbilly from HELL----I corrected this mistake very quickly
#4 1994 to present----We have our ups and downs----but this one is the keeper.....it's been 12 yrs now----longest time I've ever stayed married.
2006-10-18 06:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married once, divorced for 7 years. I do feel bad that it didn't work because we have a daughter together, and after the divorce he just forgot about her.
2006-10-18 10:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three times no.1 Will always have feelings for him but he was a very abusive alcoholic who refused to hold down a job and would come to my job and embarass me at work. no.2. he was just a best friend who I married outta guilt and now I set him up with another friend and they have been married for quite sometime now and have kids toeghter and she still thanks me and they r both happy. and no.3. still married to for 13 years now through thick and thin third time is a charm for me. life is no mistakes just lessons learned it is Live Love and Learn.
2006-10-18 06:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by hubbys2ndbest2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TWICE FIRST YOUNG AND DUMB HUSBAND USED ME LIKE A SLAVE I THOUGHT I WAS BEING A GOOD WIFE DOING WHAT HE COMMANDED ME TO DO I GREW UP AFTER 13 HARD YEARS G;AD I LEARNED THE FIRST TIME AROUND SECOND HUSBAND I REALLY GOT A UNDERSTANDING A LEARNED HIS WAYS LIKES AND PAID ATTENTION TO HIS RES PONCES AND PERSONALITY I WAS READY FOR A TRUE RELATIONSHIP I HAD WANTS AND DESIRES I LOOKED FOR IN MY MATE SAT DOWN REALLY TALKED AND GOT A UNDERSTANDING ABOUT EACH OTHER
WANTS NEEDS AND DESIRES AS A COUPLE
2006-10-18 06:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by BOOGIE49er 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE!!! The first marriage was extremely abusive and the second one was a military matter.
2006-10-18 06:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋