My wife left me for a lesser guy because he was around to give her attention while I was away at war for a year. We have three great kids. Do you think she would ever come back? why or why not?
2006-10-17 21:22:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Even if she comes back, I don't think it's wise to take her back. When she married u, she knew what kind of lifestyle she was getting into and there is absolutely no excuse for doing what she did while u were away. This shows a severe lack of commitment on her part. Take your kids and leave her. Find someone who's worthy of u. U shouldn't stay with someone who only wants to be commited when it's convenient for her.
2006-10-17 21:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Simon, its good your back home from war. And this kind of thing unfortunately happens on both sides. Take your three kids and split. If she couldn't wait 12 months for you being off to war, then what happens if your deployed again. So she has already shot trust down the toilet. And you don't need to be living with that kind of crap going on. Let her go. And enjoy your kids.
2006-10-17 21:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont want her back. She wasnt there for you while you were away at war, so she didnt appreciate what you were doing for your country and yourselves. She might come back when the other guy gets rid of her, but you shouldn't take her back.
2006-10-17 21:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by Veronica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She shouldnt have gone with this guy in the first place if she alreay has kids with u. Try talking to her and ask why did she left. U have every right to know esp when u went away to do service for ur country.
2006-10-17 21:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by IcyBlue2412 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You shouldn't ask her to come back at all. If she did that to you once, she'll most likely do it again. In my opinion she doesn't love and respect you enough and you deserve better.
2006-10-18 10:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by ravekiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its her loss mate, it doesnt make you any less of a father and do you really want her back? and why care? theres a nice girl around the corner who loves a man in uniform. you need to boost your self respect and dignity,
2006-10-17 21:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may come back but she'll always look down on you for settling for a cheating woman.
2006-10-17 21:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might if you let her. I know that I left mine yrs ago for a guy I found out was not really for me. My ex wanted me back but he kept reminding me of what I did so I left again. That time for good. So if she comes back forgive her.
2006-10-17 21:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by Tedi 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
eih i think she will not because if she really wants to stay she should have and to think that you have kids...you need to deal with your children alone for now..
2006-10-17 21:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by queen_maan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might...but ask yourself...are you willing to take her back if she does?
2006-10-18 02:25:07 · answer #10 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋