i mean i m simple.but in this time nobody likes simple & cultured girl!!!so tell me the reason. Are there no vacancy for honesty,truthfullness,goodness in friendship?am i wrong?
2006-10-17 20:37:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Who says nobody likes a good and cultured girl? I do! I love a woman who is intelligent, and I can have a nice conversation with. Beautiful girls are nice, but I've known some who have had no personality.
It's not just guys. There are a lot of girls who only go for the good looking guys with nice cars, who treat their women like dirt. It seems a lot of girls like the "bad boys" and a lot of nice guys are left out. Good looking people seem to have a lot of advantages.
All of the qualities you mentioned, honesty, truthfulness, goodness, and friendship are at the top of the list. I think most guys want a woman to be their friend, someone who they can talk to and enjoy being with.
You are not totally wrong. There are some guys who only go for "hot chicks", but they are shallow idiots. There are guys who do look at what's on the inside :)
2006-10-17 20:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the thing is like when u see a nice dress in the window, u say oh my gosh i want it it is a hot dress; now u either try it and u say no it does not fit me or u wear for few days then say it is sexy but not practical!
when guys see a beautiful girl they r attracted to her the same way u were attracted by that dress! but when u r looking for a long term relation u would want something that goes on & they usually don't figure it out that easily, u have to try many dresses before u know the importance of a simple yet practical dress that u can live with ur whole life.
a guy that does not want an honest girl but only beautiful is either shallow so he can't see but beauty or he is looking for fun only
2006-10-17 20:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by mallouna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not wrong but not completely right. Guys are visually stimulated creatures which could come off pretty shallow but no worries if a girl is beautiful within it will shine through no matter what the "standard" of "beautiful" is. This world is vast and there are MANY different types of people with all sorts of tastes. No need to fret, everyone will find someone who admires them for who they are. If your beautiful in and out great! If your only beautiful out, that will only attract shallow guys anyway so it all works out.
2006-10-17 20:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is depends on place and time. many boys like simple & cultured girl then beauty. they think beauty is a relative matter. the beauty of a girl may be decrease after young age. but her personality will glow day by day and this is more important for adjustment. a beautiful girl with silly personality is always avoaidable for intelligent boys.
2006-10-17 21:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by Devashis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are over 150 million males on this earth! How many have you met? For ever left shoe ther is a right shoe! Nature did not leave any one out.
Why don't you do things that you enjoy doing? Go places that you enjoy going to? Nature will pile more interesting people on your plate than you will know what to do with.
Stop looking and comparing yourself to others1 There is only one YOU!
2006-10-17 20:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bansari, U r somewhat right, but this is not 100% correct.
These days, attitude has been changed, people's minds have been changed. Western culture is making considerable impact on us. According to me, People of the country is loosing grip on the indian culture, but there minds r not mature enough to accept western culture. Lives r becoming more faster and money oriented. in such kind of era, ratio of honest people left is very poor.
If I say, i m one of them, who believes in trust, open heartness, kindness. Simple and cultured girls impress me and for any relatonship, trust is the base. i m not married but in search of such kind of girl.
2006-10-17 20:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by Rohan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would a chick rather have a hot guy that will be a jerk and cheat or hit her instead of a big guy and im not all that big. that will treat them like a queen and love them every second of the day.
2006-10-17 20:40:03 · answer #7 · answered by bigpoppa_2x@verizon.net 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to compare yourself to other girls, because you're beautiful. i personally agree with you, but i'm better being a cultured and a good girl than being a beautiful, but stupid girl
( i'm so sorry for the grammar!!)
2006-10-17 21:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by -Assyla- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are guys are there who can only see outer appearance and not inner beauty, vice versa, there are gals who only go for handsome idiots, and ignore those guys who are genuinely kind and thoughtful
you aren't wrong, they are, but anyway, why even care for those shallow people? there must be someone who can appreciate you somewhere out there
2006-10-17 21:10:40 · answer #9 · answered by meow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it`s just the primary instinct,but trust me after the first impression we get bored by stupidity really quick...so don`t confuse guys with idiots,we may carry the same faces but we are really different!
2006-10-17 22:26:08 · answer #10 · answered by dodel83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋