it comes down to this, my soon to be ex ust bisted in here and said that if i didn't he would have my son taken away for various reasons and i just want to get through the divorce but i think if he did it tonight he'll do it again...we're using the same attorney so i can't say anythingto her
2006-10-17 20:23:10 · 7 answers · asked by balanced_lil_angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not that I know of - and I don't understand what the point would be. Also, your attorney can't represent both of you - that's a conflict of interests. If she is saying that she can, I would look for a new attorney immediately b/c something isn't right with that.
2006-10-17 20:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one, you need a new attorney. I don't think an attorney can represent opposing parties in the same matter. Number 2, if he forced you to have sex with him, why would you care about him being arrested. Number 3, he's threatening you. Call the police, get a good lawyer. You do not want someone like that raising your son. At least have a file started so that if it comes down to custody, you'll have a history of what he has done to you. Good luck, I hope you figure this out.
2006-10-18 03:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by s 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, I have to question the validity of this question as it is COMPLETELY unethical for an attorney to represent both sides. If that is truly the case, get a new lawyer and do it now! Secondly, no there is no way to report a rape and not have an arrest made (in the US) because it becomes the DA's choice to prosecute, not the victims.
HTH
2006-10-18 03:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by Star 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you know how many arrests were made in relation to the number of rape reports made?
I dont have the statistics.......but I can tell you the percentage of arrests after reports made is definitely less than 50%.........or may be even less than 20%.
The law requires that a rape has to be proven before it could be classified as rape.
In your case..........from what you said.........I think you are just a softie........n a hopeless useless woman....n no wonder u r getting divorced!
How could you call it a rape when you allow it?
N in fact he never said he was going to RAPE you..............he only wants to have sex with you............n if you dont agree.......he'll take your son away.
U cant even call it intimidation...........as if your husband wants to take the son away.......he sure can........... he has just as right as you to your son.....
.....n your saying "......for various reasons...." implies he has good enough reasons..........known to u........that he could safely take your son without repercussions!
Lady..........dont be coy..........there must be thousands of other lawyers around.........n you get on Yahoo Answers.......to sing us this sad..... sad song!!!
If the dick fits.......wear it!
2006-10-18 03:41:15 · answer #4 · answered by sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have the same attorney. If he is paying for the attorney, its his attorney and you are representing yourself. See your own attorney before his coercion escalates.
2006-10-18 03:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. you ant. why not. this would onley give you you son as well . this is called blackmail as well satuary rape. and this is a feloney as well in my opion ?
2006-10-18 03:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about it to polite to raper mom /parent
2006-10-18 03:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋