2006-10-17 20:18:03 · 18 answers · asked by Go For Broke 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's a tough question and I feel really bad for what she's been through. If you love her then why not? She's been through enough shi+ from men, she doesn't need another guy doing someing horriable. She probably kept the baby for a couple reasons like religious (can't have an abortion) or maybe she knew the guy that raped her and thought he would come around eventully. Whatever the reason is, she has a child. I'm sure she's fine without you but please don't put her though anymore disstress. If you plan on leaving her, do it now so she doesn't get more hurt in the long run.
2006-10-17 20:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1- Was she raped before you got to know her? Then you have already answered your Q. Cause you have accepted her for what ever situation she's in.
2- If she went through that trauma after you guys were together, why on earth didn't she take post precautions before it was too late (conceiving the child I meant)?
3- Your question is too brief. There are many factors as to why, when, how, all that happened. If you guys have discussed all that and come to a point of "let bygones be bygones", then what are you waiting for?! Where's the champaign? Let the wedding bells ring, dude!
10- The @#$#ing rapist should be castrated.
2006-10-18 03:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by cre8or 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it wasn't her fault. Would someone marry you if you were raped as a child? She opened up to you, its a sign she loves you. You should love her back.
2006-10-18 03:20:28 · answer #3 · answered by Janji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her then yes of course the rape isnt her fault or the childs
doing so gives the rapist power
2006-10-18 03:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by dropped_skittles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. This is an unfortunate thing to happen to someone. Such incidents happen across many homes, and she is not only the one single victim of this torture. Get her into counseling to come out of that bad, aching, and unforgettable memories. Once, her and your mind gets cleared of all these thoughts, will be ready to go ahead with the beautiful future waiting to happen for you. Best wishes. God is with you as always.
2006-10-18 03:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by Spheris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love the woman you would, it's not hers or that childs fault that she was raped.
Besides with a father like that the child will need a good male influence in his or her life.
2006-10-18 04:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by girlfromflorida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any doubts about it, don't marry her. She and the child don't need your doubts and misgivings in their life. If you can't love and cherish both her and the child, spare them the misery you will bring to them. Life is hard enough for them as it is. May God bless all of you
2006-10-18 03:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by KieKie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say a very big yes. one should marry her and infact love her so much as it was not her fault that she was raped. so one should also help her forget the tormer in her head by loving and advicing her
2006-10-18 03:26:16 · answer #8 · answered by anne k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The rape should not have anything to do with it. If you want to marry her because you love her, then do so. If you have any doubts, walk away.
2006-10-18 03:21:05 · answer #9 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she has been throught that kind of hell pal and i am a male as well if i loved her yes i would marry her as well the child didnt have no choice as well i would as well love the child as well isnt it a part of her as well damm right if i loved her yes i would marry her. my open opion?
2006-10-18 03:24:01 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋