I like babies and all and maybe one day would like to have one ...but i never want to go though the pregnancy thing. It looks too painful and disgusting. And plus your body might look different afterwards. Am i the only one who feels this way?
2006-10-17 20:14:32 · 12 answers · asked by Ry126 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
No, you're not. I felt the same way. I was so freaked out about the whole thing, and I could never imagine recovering from such a horrid experience. Well, much to my shock, when you meet your baby, all of the pain, embarrassment, and agonizing moments seem to disappear. It's like it never happened, and all you have is this perfect little person to love for the rest of your life. My body did change, but I'm not that much different. I've accepted my changes knowing that my little guy was worth it.
2006-10-17 20:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by munkees81 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
ok pregnancy is not disgusting! its one of the most wonderful expirences that a woman can have.. I will admit that parts of it are painful. if you feel like you cannot do the pregnancy thing then adopt a child. there are plenty out there that need good homes. Yes your body will change you will gain weight and your breasts will get larger along with other bodily changes but like i said ADOPT!
2006-10-18 03:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by llllll_amanda_lllllll 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not the only one, I myself didn't think that I wanted to ever be pregnant. But I am 38 weeks pregnant now and it is the most wonderful experience I have ever had. Sure it is uncomfortable at times and can be overwhelming but I couldn't imagine never having the experience. And you could not ask for a better end result, nothing can take the place of holding your own baby in your arms for the first time.
2006-10-18 03:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by charlotte m 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
NO...you sound young though. Let me guess. You're about 25 years or younger? There's no hurry. Enjoy your freedom and your beautiful(pre-baby) body. The pain is worth it and things that seem important to you now won't matter after baby comes into your life. Best thing that ever happened to me.
2006-10-18 03:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by tekoflower 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No probably not but i can tell you this - i look ten times better after two children then i did before falling pregnant. the experience is far from horrid and clearly you are very young. wait till you are older and more experienced. when you meet the right man you might feel different......give it time.
2006-10-18 03:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by CLEVER 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
A LOT OF WOMEN FEEL THIS WAY, THIS MEANS THEY ARE NOT READY. THERE WILL COME A TIME WHEN IT HAPPENS AND LIKE ME, YOU WONT CARE ABOUT ANY OF THAT STUFF. HAVING A BABY WAS MY BIGGEST FEAR, BUT AS BAD AS IT WAS(AND IT WAS BAD) IT WASNT AS BAD AS I THOUGHT IT WAS GOING TO BE...IT WAS BAD STILL, BUT WHEN HE FINALLY CAME OUT, IT FELT LIKE THE BIGGEST AND BEST ORGASM I NEVER WILL HAVE. IN OTHER WORDS IT JUST FEELS SOOOO GOOD THAT HE'S OUT AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, IT'S ALL OVER. IT IS SO WORTH IT!! IF YOUR LUCKY, YOUR BODY MIGHT GO BACK TO NORMAL, MAYBE A LITTLE BIT OF STRETCH MARKS, BUT IF YOU LOVE YOURSELF, AND YOU LOVE YOUR BABY...THOSE STRETCH MARKS WILL NOT BE A THOUGHT IN YOUR MIND.
2006-10-18 03:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by jaylove209 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
PROBABLY NOT.... BUT I AM SURE EVERY WOMEN WORRIES ABOUT WHAT PREGNANCY WILL DO TO HER LOOKS AND WHAT THAT EFFECT WILL HAVE ON HER ATTRACTIVENESS TO THE MALE SPECIES. I WOULDN'T WORRY TOO MUCH THOUGH. NATURE WILL TAKE IT'S TOLL ON EVERYONE'S BODY IN ONE WAY OR ANOTHER. DON'T YOU THINK??? BY THE WAY, I AM VERY HAPPY MY MOM DID NOT MIND WHAT CARRYING ME WOULD DO TO HER BODY, OTHERWISE I WOULD NOT BE WRITING YOU RIGHT NOW. AND NEITHER WOULD YOU. LOL
2006-10-18 03:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by GOT MILK? 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I doubt it. There are probably quite a few women out there who think the exact same way you do.
2006-10-18 03:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by Nicky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you share this planet with a few billion other people - do you really think you are the only one?!
2006-10-18 03:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by ...n... 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Probably not, but when you finally have your baby in your arms nothing else matters and it would be all worth it.
2006-10-18 03:16:40 · answer #10 · answered by Baby boy blue 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋