This is a question asked by my friend.But I need your want your experience and help.She first fell in love with this guy but the he only used her. 3 yrs later she again fell in love with this other guy and it was a mess. She suffered trying to win his heart. Few months later, she fell into another nice guy but when she told him that she liked him he never ever talked to her again. Since there she said she wasn't going to love again; But unfortunately love comes and goes. So she fell in love with this other guy who really was very friendly and trusted each other for 2 years. There was a certain point where she couldn't wait any longer and told the guy she liked him. But at first, the guy said it was ok but he wasn't interested, atleast he had said that it wasn't going to ruin their friendship. This is when the problem starts,because the guy never talked to her again. My friend was so depressed that she hated herself and promised to never love again. What can I do to help her?...
2006-10-17 20:10:39 · 8 answers · asked by Myself 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
By the way she liked them separately. I mean she liked them separately....
2006-10-17 20:40:46 · update #1
Love does seem like a curse sometimes...Unfortunately, broken hearts are an inevitable part of life.
The best thing you can do for her is to let her know how good a person she is, and that there is absolutely nothing wrong with her. Many, many, many people go through several failed relationships before finding the right person.
Also, be there for her and listen to her complaints about her love life. She needs someone she can vent her frustrations and other emotions too. Make sure she knows you're there for her anytime she needs someone to talk to. She feels like she can never love again now, but eventually the heartache will ease, and one day she will undoubtely find a guy that will return her feelings, and treat her with the love and respect she deserves. You probably won't be able to convince of that while her broken heart is still fresh, but like I said, just be there for her, and one day she will find it out for herself.
2006-10-17 20:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by goldenrose82 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has fallen into a pattern she attracts the wrong men .Get her to write down what she wants in her man in general then add honesty loyalty caring being able to comunicate with each other ,sharing as much as possible ,he must want to be with her more than anyone else .And tell her to not give sex for a long time if he doesnt love her properly he will leave if he will wait then he is worth a try .goodluck to your friend .
2006-10-18 03:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to stop sleeping with them. She was getting used. When a man sees that she has confidence and self respect it will rouse his curiosity and he may stick around. You can never be truly loved if you don't first love yourself. She is too valuable to give up the good to anyone. She needs to portray that confidence and hold out til he knows she respects herself.
2006-10-18 03:17:55 · answer #3 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that there is no such thing as love if they don't share her back the same feeling
cause the idea about love is tow persons like each other and share any time together so she didn't really fell in love with them considering they didn't love her back
and tell her not to tell them her feeling till they say something about it
I guess this is all I have to say to you and to your friend
;)
2006-10-18 03:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by Metalloid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
c loving so many people itself is not love.
she has taken a good decision.
ask her to get married now.
enough love and srewing
2006-10-18 03:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her to read the book "don't sweat the small stuff".Very helpful.
2006-10-18 03:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by Devon M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and still in every human history
2006-10-18 03:18:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-18 03:31:28 · answer #8 · answered by hhgdgdfg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋