I dreamt last night that we all got a bit drunk and i was watching my fiance have sex with my best friend. I wasnt the least bit pissed off or jealous either. i didnt even care. it was wierd. and then after theyd finished, me and my best friend(girl) started kissing and touching eachother and we were enjoying it.. then when we woke up the next day(in my dream) i remember pretending to my fiance that i was too drunk to remember what went on and he went along with it and didnt say a word about it. What do you think the meaning of my dream is????
2006-10-17 20:08:09 · 8 answers · asked by Jordy[♥] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is a dream of trust and self esteem
You projected your best friend to have an affair with your fiance. That is a trust issue about either your best friend or your fiance. Perhaps, subconsciously in reality you don't trust them in certain extent or perhaps you think your best friend is jealous of you. Because the fact that she is your best friend. And there may be some guilty conscience involved. That is why you dreamed about not caring about the sex thing.
Making out with all symbolizes your guilt conscience. On one hand, you don't care, on the other hand, you want to share the thing you have with your best friend. That shows your self esteem being low at one point. Because you feel that things should be shared and not owned merely by you, you feel obligated to share things with your best friend.
However, you subconsciously are using "drunk" as excuse to cheat yourself. That basically tells you that you may be somewhat in denial among you, your best friend and your fiance.
2006-10-18 08:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's your subconscious.....are u afraid that your marriage will be ruined??? or u don't care at all with the relationship??? u don't feel jealous at all?? dreams are strange n' manipulative.....now, come back to reality, try to think about your fiance with your bff.....how do u feel???? something is telling u to be careful in your dream......or u can also forget about it.....trust your fiance n' marry happily......good luck!!!
2006-10-18 03:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams represent what you wish from deep inside,and you do not have the strength to make it that in reality,so it takes the form of your friend in you dream whom you know so well. She communicate to you about her direct experience to you in your dream next as you mentioned it. So, gal, dreams are dreams, do not try to mimic in reality, rather they are the pictorial form of your thoughts and subconscious mind. It represents what you wanted,but not exactly what he wanted. That's all.
2006-10-18 03:18:42 · answer #3 · answered by Spheris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the people in our dreams all represent parts of ourselves.
the flirty part of you (represented by your gf) wants to get out more and play.
the controlling part of you (represented by your bf) wants to have a little more fun.
sounds like you have been working too hard.
call in sick on friday and take a three day weekend to treat yourself to a little fun.
2006-10-18 03:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by sharrron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your fiance if he likes your best friend, or would he mind if you kissed her.
2006-10-18 03:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh that you want to have sex with your girlfriend and your boyfriend at the same time ?
2006-10-18 03:12:40 · answer #6 · answered by g_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad luck u must buy 20 cat afther tat
2006-10-18 03:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just think that u have a good imagination in ur dreams unless he really would do that
2006-10-18 03:12:29 · answer #8 · answered by muthafaka8o8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋