heres the deal i went over to her and told her that i was upset b/c she blow me off for her b/f should i still be her friend even when she finds her b/f more important then me when have been thru a lot of stuff together she was there for me when my b/f abused me and i dont want to throw away and four year friendship over stupid drama plz help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-17 20:06:08 · 8 answers · asked by jthizz_06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try saying this to her..................
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way!
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all!
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-10-17 20:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a hard one.that happend to me very long time ago.I think she is being very unfair towards you.Make her see how you feel and be open and honest to her.Doesnt matter if she helped you when ur bf abused you, yes she was a good friend then but what bout now. she is pushing you away from her. tell her that you dont want to be friends anymore and tell her your reasons and just see her reaction.If she's upset leave it for a while and she will crawl back if she's ok with that you know she's not a real friend, even after 4 years.People change and sometimes you only see there true colours much later.
2006-10-18 03:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by Lady_Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give her time. she will come to you soon when she cools off dnt worry. i would still be her friend i mean after all you don't want to loose her over nothing really. you had the right to tell her that you were upset and she should have respected that but obviously not. just get on with everyday things and show that you are happy and not upset because of her and she will soon miss you and come to you. good luck x
2006-10-18 03:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don`t hurt anyone! It only takes few seconds to hurt people you love and it takes years to heal.
if u r wrong go and say sorry
if not just send her cute-nice sms
like
""SMILE bcoz u have just received a message from some one hoping u r fine......""
Enjoy Your Life Today Because Yesterday Has Gone and Tomorrow May Never Come.
2006-10-18 17:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by younas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to apologize to her. Of course she is going to want to spend time with her bf, but you are her best friend. She was there for you before, and she will be there for you in the future. That's what you need to do, be there for her. A good friend only comes once in a life time, and that's what you need to be. So go tell her you were wrong and make up.
Good luck.
2006-10-18 03:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by Zodiac_Child 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,
ive been in plenty of fights b4, stand your ground dont give in but dont be a horrible person. My advice is try and talk to her each day, just a hello first then try a conversation eventually (hopefully) you will be able to forgive and forget!
hope it works!!
2006-10-18 03:18:14 · answer #6 · answered by loving_guys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just speak to plain with all love and affection Make him feel that you love him more than life and truly. He will be back in your arms. No ego..
2006-10-18 03:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say excuse if u r at wrong or give a smile and continue if they r wrong.
forgive and make up.
2006-10-18 03:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋