this is the 3rd time that we have been over. Last time she got on her laptop to check email but it was just a few times and this time she was on the entire time we were there. I was playing with her daughter and mine and she was surfing or answering email. I feel really used and rejected not to mention very hurt. I didn't say anything because I was just in utter shock that she would treat me like that... I do plan on saying something too. Should I feel this used??
2006-10-17 20:00:15 · 7 answers · asked by forme2poopon73 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
invite her to your house and emphasize this is a play date, not free to surf on the computer time.
2006-10-17 20:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by Lady_Lavinia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a ***** she is all but a friend she is totaly useing you to watch her kids basicly to make less work for her if I where you I would not let it wait much longer because you need to say somthing while your still heated otherwise you will be to nice and just say it hurt your feelings and she will not learn that she can't do things like that to you and why has your man not said somthing in my opinion he is soposed to be your friend , lover and protector but it I know you like I think I do then I'de bet that I know his type to and ide be willing to bet that on the drive home when you brought it up he was all big and bad about it but is to much of a puss to say anything him self and put it on your shoulders so I guess you should seince you where the pants in the relationship.
2006-10-18 03:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by Since birth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse u have every right to be hurt really ur friend is taking advantage of u talk to her & tell that the time was meant for a play date not for u to babysit her daughter or for her to surf the net if she picks a quarrel then call it quits cos now it appears as though she were USING u.
2006-10-18 03:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should stop this nonsense. She cannot invite u and be rude. We all have our own work but we are never so ill-mannered to carry on when people are over.
2006-10-18 03:08:18 · answer #4 · answered by majorcavalry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak up, she probably doesn't realise how much it hurts you. You are a just a cheap babysitter for her child. So she can do other things.
2006-10-18 03:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by Mummabear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend is using you. Free babysitter it sounds like! I would feel used. I hope things get better for you and I think you should tell her how you feel.
2006-10-18 03:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by Tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her next time she asks you over to hire a babysitter indtead
2006-10-18 03:10:18 · answer #7 · answered by acid tongue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋