she said she will not change her ways of staying late for a party or clubbing
2006-10-17 19:32:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thx for your answer people but if i DIVORCE her she will get atleast half of my money and property. How good for her to use my resources to cheat me and do her lifestyle and run away with my hard earned money and with my son.
2006-10-17 22:23:05 · update #1
It is a very difficult choice.
I am/was in the same boat as you. But i cant tell you what to do. I can only tell you what i did.
1) I forgave her.
2) But i couldnt live with her anymore due to her cheating and lifestyle.
3) We are divorced.
4) However, we are still friends. The healing has begun on my side, i try to live life as best as i could. I still miss her lots, but i dont think i can love someone who doesnt want to go home to the person she was married to.
Take care. Forgiveness is more for yourself than for the other party. I finally understood that when i forgave her. The anger went away, the pain slowy, will too.
2006-10-17 19:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by Xanadu loves you 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you play her game and see how she likes it...if she doesn't stop after you have voiced a problem about it and you haven't reached a compromise, then you have two options.
1. Go out to parties and clubs yourself.
or if that isn't your thing and you aren't happy
2. Leave her. Harsh but hey life is too short to have regrets...Good luck.
2006-10-17 19:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you consider clubbing as cheating? Did she now when you married her that you felt that way? Hving been cheated on, I know what it feels like, but you need to be sure she is before you make any lasting decisions.
2006-10-17 19:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by L C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously it is more important to her to be clubbing and partying than being your partner. You know you dont need that kind of crap, but leaving the one you love is hard...very hard. The decision is yours to put up with it or not. Be in control not under control.
2006-10-17 19:37:33 · answer #4 · answered by Aztlan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is telling the truth, why not join her as she goes clubbing. Maybe the problem isn't cheating but something else. If you were with her maybe you would find out.
2006-10-17 19:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by Chris C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first part was bad enough- but the lack of remorse would give me the strength to pack up and leave.
2006-10-17 19:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married and my husband would never forgive me. But by the sounds of it you should find someone who is more your style she sounds like she was never ready to settle down and that was a shame.
2006-10-17 19:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anne C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.how would she feel if you cheated on her?Does she not know the values of your wedding vows? why did she marry? marriage makes you both one unit so you have to do stuff together.
2006-10-17 19:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by whyworry26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
file for divorce.... u dont need this type of ''woman'' in ur life... go out and find someone who is worthy of the honor of being ur wife
2015-07-05 22:47:14 · answer #9 · answered by amzyboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never
2006-10-17 19:41:33 · answer #10 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋