we have been together for nine years and are now calling it quits, he has been cheating and sneeking around for many years. I just can stand it any longer and he is very angery. Now he wants the money back that he put into a car. I traided in my car and he put some money down towards it, we refinanced our home and that is one of the things that we payed off. now that we are go ouseperatet ways he is expecting it all back.
2006-10-17 19:31:54 · 15 answers · asked by susan e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No you do not owe him one red penny. I'm sure that car was used at times for him to get around. He got back his money in use and rides. Tell him to kiss your a** and dare him to try and get it, because no judge will ever give it to him. He's such a low life loser. To the girls out there - do not date this man!!!
2006-10-17 19:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by artist2213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much he owes you and what your main priority is at the moment. If its a couple hundred dollars you might just want to write it off and get out of there for your own sanity. Even if $200 seems like a lot it may not be worth the pain and effort. If it is a lot more money you could try to have him sign an agreement. Might be tough during a break up. But, worth a shot. At least if he signs something acknowledging he owes you, you could take him to small claims court down the line. In the past, I've had my own expensive life lessons. Every once in awhile I think it would be nice if so-and-so had paid me back the money--but in the end I'm a better person for having learned the lesson and the money wouldn't have benefited me that much anyway. Good luck!!
2016-03-28 14:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the spirit in which the money was given, was it a loan or a gift. Also do you feel comfortable taking the money of someone you probably dont ever want to see again? In these situations if you are the agrieved partner you may not want him to have any moral edge over you. If he benefitted from the car you may consider repaying some fraction of it which you feel is appropriate.
2006-10-17 19:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by Chris C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont owe any1 money they willingly (without a repay contract) gave to you. He's your boyfriend fine, you obviously dont love him any more than he loves you. My advice: set him up with the TV show punk'd, get them to film him at a public place where he hangs out with his peeps then take to the stage and let him bullshit himself by asking you for the cheap change he put toward your car trade. then do what you think is best.
2006-10-18 01:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by bombom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regarding the receipts answer, do you have receipts to prove he did not?
Get legal advise young lady.
That said, my advise is ''build bridge's''.
What has happened has happened, but after 9 years should you really be fighting over small amounts of money?
I'm very far from rich but, unless he wants the house, why bother?
Life's too short.
Good luck.
2006-10-17 19:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to bear in mind what was agreed at the time the car was bought. Was it a loan to you, or a contribution towards a car that you would have shared use of.
2006-10-17 19:35:30 · answer #6 · answered by 'Dr Greene' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he can expect in one hand and s**t in the other one,, unless you have a contract or an agreement about it being a loan, nope, its sort of like its all both of yours money, ( Hey I watch "The Peoples Court")
2006-10-17 19:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's no receipt or contract he can forget it ..
But I suppose if you want a clean break and to get him out of your life give him back his money and move on..
Hope it all works out ..
2006-10-17 19:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't owe him any money, the courts don't like to get involved in things like this.
2006-10-17 20:20:02 · answer #9 · answered by Yaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have receipts statingh e put that money down, if not, then he has no proof.
2006-10-17 19:34:13 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋