she said she will not change her ways of staying late for a party or clubbing
2006-10-17 19:28:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If she isn't willing to change then you need to make a change. Accept the fact that she doesn't care and move on.
2006-10-17 19:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by Aaron 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Should you forgive your wife for cheating on you?
Yes... For your sake, not hers.. (By you dwelling on the past, it only causes YOUR life misery! The constant wondering, staying up late at night waiting...) Then, after you forgive her, you need to decide if you want to sit back and wait on it to happen again!
Is it possible for a woman or man to go out partying and still maintain a stable relationship at home? Yes. If that person has a conscious and loves the person that they are with.
Most of us are aware of the fact that the reason 99.9% of men or women go out (without their mate) is for the attention... It is absolutely human to crave that attention even if you are getting plenty of it at home. Knowing where to draw the line is a different story... Of course, your wife seems to be one of these people who has no clue as to where to draw the line.
If your wife goes out on a regular basis, refuses to change her way or admit that she has done any wrong, and shows no remorse for the ultimate sin that she has already created... I would say that she is out searching for "something better"...
It is up to you to step up to the plate and face the situation in front of you. Do you want to be the one sitting at home looking like the "idiot" that she portrays you to be (I am not calling you an idiot, that is the last thing I would do) or do you want to take hold of the situation and do what you KNOW needs to be done.
Counselor... Divorce lawyer... Either would be a good place to start. However, I have a feeling that this situation is way beyond the counselors ability to help.
Good luck... I hope whatever decision you make will make your life more fullfilling!
2006-10-18 02:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by VannaMoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes forgive her, for your own benefit. You dont want to harbour any anger. If she feels shes not doing anything wrong, she will keep on doing it. If you cant accept this, better to move on
2006-10-18 02:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by sunline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she thinks she isnt doing nothing wrong . my advise to you on her is show her the door before you get. a thing called.std. or a child that isnt yours to raise she lacks morals as a wife. in my opion?
2006-10-18 02:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You CAN NOT control her. Tell her that you feel hurt with her actions. She is an adult and should know that all actions have consequences. Another option is to go with her.
2006-10-18 13:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by Wondering 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you done it, do you think she would forgive you on cheating?
2006-10-18 02:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your marriage seems to be comming to an end.
2006-10-18 02:30:44 · answer #7 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IN THIS SITUATION, TRY TO TALK TO HER CALMLY AND ASK HER WHAT SHE WANTS AND ALSO LET HR KNOW WHAT YOU DONT LIKE ABOUT HER. MAKE HER UNDERSTAND WHAT WRONG SHE IS DOING
OR ELSE CATCH HER RED HANDED AND THEN YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO.
2006-10-18 02:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont you think its best to leave her if she doesnt even want to admit the wrong she is doing
2006-10-18 02:30:28 · answer #9 · answered by ntu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be a man and dump her she got no respect for you ma n , have some pride in you
2006-10-18 02:33:27 · answer #10 · answered by jaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋