I am married - but also seeing a guy "on the side".
Its just part of my life - as wrong as I know it is.
Anyhow - when i perform oral sex on the "other man" - he takes over at the end - and replaces MY hand with his. Its like - I feel like I dont do a good enough job - since he strokes himself till he is done.
My husband- and other men I have been with - always enjoyed letting me start - and finish - with my hand, and my stroking only.
Any idea why my lover - or other men - would want to "finish" stroking themselves with me?
2006-10-17 18:43:49 · 10 answers · asked by tr_moocher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe he can't get off because you're a f*cking sIut.
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2006-10-17 19:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
The only way she can give him an infection is if she already has an infection in her mouth (like Gonorrhea, Herpes, or Trich) or has an open sore and a viral infection (such as the HIV/AIDS virus.) Several infections can be transmitted from the person receiving oral sex to the person giving. Having an open sore in the mouth increases this risk. It's best to use a condom during oral sex, even though the risk of transmitting HIV is low, many other infections are very easy to get in the mouth. The best option generally, is to be tested annually for all STDs, including HIV/AIDS, and to use condoms if you do not know your partner's status.
2016-05-21 22:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because the guy knows exactly how he wants it to feel as he approaches climax. Remember it is his penis, he has plenty of experience with it and only he will know how to make the sensation the best it can be. You are probably not making the climax approach quick enough and after too much time if not lubed, it begins to rub raw and what started out as pleasure is no longer that. DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT!
2006-10-20 07:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your other guy just wants a Cu m catcher. If I get a Blo w Jo b I'd want the woman to finish it.
2006-10-17 19:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by John H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With your hand? That isn't oral sex......
But anyways, maybe its just really hard to make him get off, and after awhile he gets frustrated and so he does it himself. It wouldn't mean your "bad" if hes rediculously hard to make ***. And different men like different things.
Then again you could always ask him.
2006-10-17 18:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by bumbleleigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are starting to squeeze to hard and its cutting off the sperm stream. and it makes it to where you can't get it all out. if you don't get it all out it makes you burn when you pea and hurts. when the guy dose it for himself he knows how hard to go and it wont happen. don't take it to heart its just better for him to do it than you.me and my girl went through the same thing.
2006-10-17 18:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My thats naughty of you... Anyway i think he is just used to doig himself in a different way. You should have a chatwith him, and maybe watch and see if he is doig it differently.
2006-10-17 18:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by Dushyanthan D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its to intense and he has take back control of the flow
2006-10-17 18:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by warlokoftx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better discuss all this with him . There you will get real answer to your question
2006-10-17 19:22:35 · answer #9 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o will
2006-10-17 21:15:25 · answer #10 · answered by im nude how about you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋