how do u prevent this
2006-10-17 18:17:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We don't, we just get tired of asking and getting rejected all the time. After a while we just stop asking.
2006-10-17 18:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great Question! I lost interest in my now ex-wife after being together for 18 years.I think it had something to do with her attitude.Whenever we had an argument,she would tell me to pack my stuff and get out. When I finally took her advice, she visibly back-pedaled but it was already too late, the damage was done.
She was also a slob. Everytime I went to the sink to take a leak, it was full of dishes!
Dang women,what can ya do?
2006-10-18 14:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by hott.dawg™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are at their "peak" at 18, while women just get revved up by 35. Odd, eh? Men lose testosterone over time, and if this is causing problems, he should get referred to a urologist and have his hormones checked. Lots can be done. The important thing is that the wife should not blame herself at all. Sometimes things are just chemical and biological.
2006-10-18 01:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you know his tastes and what really turns him on. Keep things interesting and take care of yourself. For example, my husband is a boob guy. So every couple of days I wear something really low cut and when we are out I bend so he can get a peek. But I do it like it's accidental and I don't realize I'm doing it. He LOVES this because it makes him feel like he's doing something naughty even though he's seen my funbags for 12 years. I also lift my shirt and flash him every now and then at home. I try to keep up with what he's interested in and always make sure I'm interesting enough to have conversations with him. That way we can talk with each other instead of at each other. This helps keep him away from those "My wife just doesn't understand me" conversations. Treat him like a boyfriend instead of a husband. It will keep him interested.
2006-10-17 18:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by C. V. C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What works for my wife and I is to always keep communication about sex open. We both are free to tell the other about desires and fantasies without worry about how the other will react. We also make sure to tease and keep some anticipation alive. We will text or email each other at work and tell each other what wed like to do when we get home. We visit adult toy stores together etc.,
2006-10-18 02:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well men are like dogs they bang any bi@tch that comes their way so you cant prevent them from this thats why they lose that sexual feeling with the wife over time.
2006-10-17 18:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Officially, this is known as the "Coolidge Effect," named after an apocryphal story about President Coolidge. He and Mrs. Coolidge were visiting a chicken ranch and were being given separate tours. When Mrs. Coolidge got to the hen house, she noticed a rooster copulating with a hen. She asked the farmer, "Does he do that all the time?" The farmer replied, "Every day." Mrs. Coolidge said, "Tell that to Mr. Coolidge!" When President Coolidge got to the same house, he saw the same thing. He asked the farmer, "Same hen every time?" to which the farmer replied, "Different hen every day." President Coolidge said, "Tell that to Mrs. Coolidge!"
2006-10-17 19:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this happens with some marriages. Then again, some men are dogs, will never be satisfied with one woman, will always lust after others. I think it boils down to having an honest relationship and having good communication. I think once that disintegrates, it's a done deal.
2006-10-17 18:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by nunya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason women get bored with sex. It's the same thing over and over again. How do you prevent this? Easy answer, explore the many things out there to spice up your sex life.
2006-10-17 18:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wives change. After they get married a lot of them gain weight, never dress up, don't wear makeup...
Remember, there are a lot of women out there that are competing with you even if you or him don't know it. What attracted him to you in the first place?
If you are a stay at home wife fix yourself up before he gets home, put on his favorite perfume... Remember what attracted him to you in the first place and keep that going....
2006-10-17 18:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by Tiny Jr. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By keeping them interested. Always differ from the routine at regular intervals. Try new positions, new erotic toys, take more time out, dress up in new lingerie, change the mood with music and candles, take 'us' time off....above all, show them more love and communication and they'll never lose interest.
2006-10-17 18:25:47 · answer #11 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋