Okay, my close friend just came out of the closet over an email, and I don't have and idea how to help him feel more comfortable. He's a year younger than I am, so in eighth grade. He said that he'd been keeping it a secret for many years and is afraid to tell his parents.
What do I do???
2006-10-17 18:11:40 · 7 answers · asked by Tamaska of the Fallen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
actually, you've already help your friend because you accepted him as the person he really is. keep encouraging him to embrace his real self no matter how hard the outcome will be. just support him until he could stand up on his own
2006-10-17 18:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by Saltbreaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your chum: religious persecution concerns are federal affairs, i think of. touch the Feds. additionally call the State police and record tournament for harassment against the guy who began all of it. Get a R.O. and sue the brains out of him if he does any added harassment. If issues do not advance, call the information. they're going to be happy to make all of it look like the fundies are tryin' to do som Salem Witch Trials :P, and subsequently they're going to teach city bigots' stupidity and lack of understanding in the past the finished U.S. i can not assure that'll make you the two celebrities, yet you are able to probable hook up a pair of interviews in State television and earn some greater suitable dollars to your problems. could the Gods help.
2016-11-23 17:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep being his friend and not treating him any differently now that he has come out. Telling someone you are gay has to be one of the hardest things to do, so by telling you he is saying that he trusts you 110%. Don't tell others what he has told you, it is up to him if and when he tells them.
Be there for him just as you were when he was 'straight',
2006-10-17 18:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by wickedly_funny66 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have allot of guy friends and all i can say is be there for him and don't judge him at all? Let him know that you are there for him? Just because his gay doesn't mean his different from other people he still is a person? So just be there for him that's all? Good luck?
2006-10-17 18:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by JESSIKA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept his way of life and still be friends...be supportive and understanding...coming out is nerve racking at any age, especially at his age...cotinue friendship like it has always been..he is the same friend regardless of his choices in his personal love life....
2006-10-17 19:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by churchonthewayseniors 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend as you have been and support him in what he chooses to do. He will definitely need it.
2006-10-17 18:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by mergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be his support. He's going to need a LOT of it.
2006-10-17 18:17:48 · answer #7 · answered by Raven Sky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋