why when u love a girl she pain u?

Answer 1

As this is a history section, might I offer some help, that might result in imprisonment nowadays;

1/ Get her incarcerated in a lunatic asylum, as Victorian men did with their wives.
2/ If she's cheated on you, take the Jewish approach, and stone her.
3/If she's seeing someone else, call him out for a duel.
4/ Just get over it, and move on to the next wench.

Answer 2

What you need to do is focus on bettering yourselves instead of even WORRYING about getting girls to love you, not bring you heartache etc. Get rid of any desperate, finnicky attitudes you had and become a cool, confident guy and if the girl in your life wants to cause you pain, then hell dude. Just brush her aside, who needs trash like that ?

Answer 3

When you love someone, you open up to them, lowering your defenses and allowing yourself to be vulnerable. The risk for hurt is much greater, and no one can cause a person pain the way a loved one can.

Answer 4

Because you give her too much importance. She is just a girl, for chrissake ! There are millions like her. She is not SO special.
If you love her, and she hurts you, just look for another girl !
The sea is plenty of fish.

And remember, ONLY YOU are responsible of your feelings.
Not her or another girl. You choose your feelings.

Just read Wayne Dyer (Your erroneous zones).

Answer 5

She pain u? I've got to agree with the first poster and wonder exactly what that means.

Answer 6

Love is blind. When the passion ignites we loose sight of what we were alone before her. If it is bad now it probably will only get worse. Sometimes it is best to walk away alone..

Answer 7

She pain u? What does that even mean?

Answer 8

Because your messin with the wrong types of girls!! There are some 'like me' that are sweet not scandalous!!

Answer 9

Thats life honey...you have to learn from your mistakes

Answer 10

u doing it wrong